cottom Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 We went on a break a month and half ago after 2 years we were described as the perfect couple. She wanted to be single and find what she wants and what she likes. During the first month we had LC with me thinking she wanted me still but in she was meeting up with another guy she knew. 12 days ago i went NC and havent said a word to her thinking that its all over for good. I went on her facebook profile pictures about 3 weeks ago and then i went on last week, in that time she had changed a lot of the captions but still has kept the pictures of me and her on there, she had the chance to delete them but hasnt. (i have a fake account she is added on that i used to look, the real me and her arent friends on facebook) I went on hers yesterday with my real account, her pictures have always been private to people that arent her friends, but in the past week she has made 2 pictures public for anybody to see, one of them of me and her. She still has all our photos on twitter aswell but she deleted pics regularly on there too. What is she playing at?
TopCat22 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Don't pull at this thread. You won't get any answers. I know the temptation to look at her FB is so strong, but what are you ever going to find out? The only person who knows how she is really feeling is her. If she is choosing not to tell you how she feels then what can you do? If she wants a break, give it to her. NC all the way and that includes not looking at her FB. It will be one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do, but all you are doing is torturing yourself here. Don't be that guy.
Author cottom Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 I find it more comfotable to look at her facebook at the moment, it helps me feel happier that im moving on cause it reminds me what the b***h looks like. I found a girl that wanted me for 5 years now, through me having 3 diff girls, she has always been there wanting me. I just feel i want to be single and see what else is out there rather than jumping into a 4th relationship in 5 years with no single time ever
TopCat22 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I don't understand. If you want to be single then why are you thinking about what she wants? Surely you are done.
Author cottom Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 We left it with no explanation really, everything she came up with i poked holes in, it was perfect and we were madly in love...i dont want her but im still confused over what happened and why it ended, and why she behaves as such. Im happy without her, i just dont understand though
TopCat22 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 What will understanding bring to you? It won't change anything. If you don't want to be with her then just let it go and move on.
TrueAwareness Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I can relate to wanting to understand, and it does play an important role in recovery. If you are left feeling that you just werent good enough for no truly good reason, it can eat you alive fora long time.
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