OnceInLove92 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Alright, so I became friends with this one girl that I dated wayy way back. We've been friends for 6 months, and started dating about a month and a half ago. We began to see each other every day, and spent a lot of time together talking and everything. We really had something special. Then one day, I get off of work, I call her and she doesn't pick up. Hours later, I still hadn't heard from her, so I tried calling her again. The next morning, I find out that no one knows where she was, so I begin to get worried and ask around. She usually keeps me updated on things. Then I find out through her step father that she was at a friends house. A couple hours later, she texts me, saying "sorry, I was at my friends house, and I left my phone in my car". I text her back saying that i was worried sick, and that I cant have that in my life. Then after that, I never heard from her back. I've tried getting a hold of her and everything, but she's ignoring me. What do you guys think? Do you think she's playing games? Or she just doesn't want anything to do with me now?
Lani Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I think you freaked her out by being all 'I can't have that in my life!' when she didn't answer for one night. Maybe leave her alone for now. And chill out.
MrCastle Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 You scared her off I suppose. Next time you want to express to a girl that you care, do it in a way that doesn't seem like you're coming on too strong. Send her a lock of her hair and a 5 page poem signed at the bottom with your blood. 1
todreaminblue Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 if a guy said to me i cant have that in my life i would think he would be having second thoughts, it would freak me out if it were one night, as an explanation by this girl you know was given, then again if i disappear for one night i get the cops called, so i dont let these sort of situations occur people i care about always know where i am....you should text her and apologise, i think you were over the top with i was worried sick, i cant have this in my life, everybody experiences moments of stress this was just one you had...i do think its salvageable and i wish you the best....deb
Ami1uwant Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I think you freaked her out by being all 'I can't have that in my life!' when she didn't answer for one night. Maybe leave her alone for now. And chill out. Yep...by saying this you scared her off when she sisnt think it was a big deal....thus she thought you are the controlling type.
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