ex gets bro involved?

[LostOne1]

I think you've thought about this a lot more than you've needed to. He's a douche, she's a coward, it's a non-issue. Moving on.

well I gave it some thought, because the last thing I want is for them to start more ****. Such as harassing me or calling me etc.. Someone DID call me last night and my house around the time her bro sent me an email. Not sure if he was trying to bug me or what.

 

That;s why I've just taken it down and all. Get it over with and so they can't bug me anymore. I think I needed this though.. for once I feel nothing for my ex and I don't want to get back with her now. No more hopeful thoughts of working it out.

 

Just want to move on with life and know stuff has been tough, but I can improve it by improving myself now.

[LostOne1]

Well today got an email from her bro saying I did the right thing and thanks?

 

LOL

 

jeez...

 

Worst of all tmrw is my ex's bday. Normally each year I would stay up till midnight the day before to be the first to say happy bday. Well.. not this year.

 

I have to say this thing has set me back

 

I don't get why when I FINALLY start to feel good and get better. Something or someone comes out and pulls me back into the past? And then I gotta go through it all over again...

[flitzanu]

normally i'd tell you the "mature" thing to do. well, hahah, that's questionable.

 

but at this point, i'd leave all of it up. you're right, it's rude and ridiculous that her "brother" is threatening you now. that would make me more keen to leave it all there and let them make good on their bluff.

 

also DO NOT CONTACT HIM EVER AT ALL.

[Simon Phoenix]

Well today got an email from her bro saying I did the right thing and thanks?

 

LOL

 

jeez...

 

Worst of all tmrw is my ex's bday. Normally each year I would stay up till midnight the day before to be the first to say happy bday. Well.. not this year.

 

I have to say this thing has set me back

 

I don't get why when I FINALLY start to feel good and get better. Something or someone comes out and pulls me back into the past? And then I gotta go through it all over again...

 

How does this set you back? I think it would set you free. There's no way you want to have anything to do with this group of people now after this. Find the positive, don't dwell on the negative. The guy is a goon, your ex sucks. This whole thing is a blessing.

[LostOne1]

How does this set you back? I think it would set you free. There's no way you want to have anything to do with this group of people now after this. Find the positive, don't dwell on the negative. The guy is a goon, your ex sucks. This whole thing is a blessing.

 

 

Your right it does set me free but I suppose it hurt to see him disrespect me like that too. I kinda felt like he backstabbed me. Here he was in the past saying I'm like his lil bro and now he just acts all rude to me. I expected for him to at least ask in a polite way if he was going to go that far.

 

Oh well wit ever it's my ex,s g'day today too. Hope she enjoys it without me.

[LostOne1]

normally i'd tell you the "mature" thing to do. well, hahah, that's questionable.

 

but at this point, i'd leave all of it up. you're right, it's rude and ridiculous that her "brother" is threatening you now. that would make me more keen to leave it all there and let them make good on their bluff.

 

also DO NOT CONTACT HIM EVER AT ALL.

Yeah never contacted him and don't plan on either. To be honest I know them I think they would,ve started **** maybe they woulda put up pics of me or something else. And at this point it isn't worth it. I rather get it over with and done. I realized I can't win this war it's over and if I fight back I'll just lose. My war now is with life and not them. So I rather fit against liffe to prove I can do well out there rather than fight my ex and her family. If they do bug me again in the future well I'll always have the video to put back online. It's set to private now and with a click of a button can be put public again.

 

Knowing them they are total losers. It's my fault for not seeing it much earlier. But hey live and learn. Now I know one important piece or checklist item I need for my new gf is her family. I gotta be sure they are not ****ed up and all.

[LostOne1]

Well was on late today. I guess my ex never deleted me off her email online list. I never did either, because we never used it. So I was on today and I can see the list and noticed she finally took me off. Looks like she deleted me today off her list.

 

I will say it hurt for about the first 10 mins. Brought some pain to know she wiped me off finally. Honestly, that was the last thing we have together online. I guess she and her brother or what ever have gone through the net taking away any relation left with her and I.

 

I felt some relief after too. Because to me that just means she doesn't feel bad about what she did, she doesn't care about me, she has NOTHING for me at ALL. She took the last thing that tied us together and well.. I guess made it easier now.

 

I guess the hardest part of the BU is to know you had ALL these ties with someone and then to see that person wants to leave NO ties to you at all. I can see why people go crazy from rejection, because it drives you nuts. It makes you wonder what's so bad about you that someone would go to EVERY length to sever ties with you.

 

And I guess I realized for most of her life she is going to hate me or think I was a bad person or at least was in our relationship. I guess what I realize as time goes by that there isn't anything totally wrong with me. Sure I made some mistakes, but I'm not even that bad.

 

In fact my counsellor told me he has SO many girls coming in talking about abusive boyfriends and how they just want a guy that my counsellor says are LIKE ME! I guess the biggest difference is I don't always reveal much about myself enough to let a girl know me.

 

But anyways just had to let it out. Sucks to know she deleted me and sucks to know someone out there hates me that much that they would sever all ties with me. But I guess I can't do much about that.

 

I'm just hoping the new girl I like will open up with me on valentines day. I guess I got my fingers crossed that I have some luck for once... It would def give me a HUGE boost.