AmeliePoulain Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 So tonight my bf invited me to go to the gym because him and his friends are playing basketball. I knew Id have nothing to do while Im here but I wanted to be supportive. His friends are cool but I think one of them was like 'hey whats this?' referring to me because I came (not in a mean way). Then his other friend asked if I had gone golfing with my bf yet. I told him that we hadnt and that I wouldnt mind going to the driving range. He said that I need to go golfing so me and my bf have something to do since Im sitting here tonight by myself on my phone lol Now the thing is, I dont have a problem cruising by myself. The basketball games on the other days some of the players girlfriends come but tonight just me. But now I feel like should I feel like a loser because I go to all the places he invites me to? I hang out with my friends still on my own time but I dont play sports so I dont mind watching him play. As far as things we do together we usually go to his house and watch a movie/snuggle or hike at night or sit on the beach and drink wine. Now I know it doesnt sound exciting but we are both low-key and I didnt think it is a problem that I dont play basketball or golf. Should I not come as much when he invites me out to his hobbies or with his friends? He always thanks me for coming and says im a good girlfriend. My hobbies by myself is playing piano, reading, hanging out with friends, and watching movies -im an introvert All in all, what do u guys think? Should I feel awkward being here or good that Im being supportive?
UStoUK Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 If he's inviting you along and wants you to go. I wouldn't care what his friends think. It's your relationship, not his friends and if he wants you around then that's just the way it is.
mariabogas Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I wouldn’t go ! The thing is, you shouldn’t go to everything he goes and that is a bad starting point for any relation. Both of you should have time for yourself without each other. Especially if you don’t do sports !
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