bgfrombg Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 Hello all, most of my entries, well I believe all of them have been under coping. I recently went through a split up with the mother of my 1 year old son who I was with for four years. I'm the worlds worst when it comes to talking to women. I've always relied on my friends, girls and guys, to talk to someone for me before I would even attempt it. I fear rejection in the worst way. If a girl was flirting with me I would have no clue, I'm just so blind and unintelligent when it comes to the opposite sex that a girl would have to come right out and say "I'm interested in you." or something like that for me to realize it. I feel I have nothing to offer. I don't have a great job, don't have hardly any money, and I don't feel very good looking either. All I have to offer is bills, which I wouldn't ask anyone else to pay, and myself. I'm as faithful as any dog ever could be and have done numerous idiotic, stupid, and downright crazy things all in the name of love, but I have yet to find the right one yet. Any advice???
kellydontwanttasleep Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 if you hit on 20 girls you should close on 5%, so that would be 1 out of 20 not too bad
havNfun Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 question: How to approach the opposite sex... answer: I'm thinking with the middle finger
chubachoop Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 I feel I have nothing to offer. I don't have a great job, don't have hardly any money, and I don't feel very good looking either. If you feel that way about yourself then girls you meet will pick up on it and feel that way too. The best asset one can have in the "single world" is confidence. Confidence is far more attractive than a good job, good looks and money. Work on building your self esteem and confidence before you get out here to meet girls. Learn to love yourself and then youll find that other people love you too. Make a list of all your good points. Youve started already, saying your faithful and do crazy things for love (showing your romantic and dedicated?) keep adding to the list writing all the things you have to offer somebody and all the things you like about yourself. Do the same for your bad points and if they are ones you can change, work on changing them. If you feel you are no good at talking to girls say think of it like "im getting better at talking at girls" or "i need more practice". Think about what you want to though from them and only go for girls who meet your standards
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