napy666 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I am currently talking to 3 guys and they all tell me they really like me a lot. And they did talk to me everyday texting me all day or messaging me online all day and then after a while this stopped happening. Now I hardly hear from the guys unless I message them online or I text them, only then will they talk to me. I have asked them let's meet up but 1 of them has a cheap car and no job. the other is afraid to ride the train and can't get a ride even though he has a mom, sister, and brother to do so, and the third guy doesn't drive or have a ride. So do these guys like me or no?
Casablanca Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I am currently talking to 3 guys and they all tell me they really like me a lot. And they did talk to me everyday texting me all day or messaging me online all day and then after a while this stopped happening. Now I hardly hear from the guys unless I message them online or I text them, only then will they talk to me. I have asked them let's meet up but 1 of them has a cheap car and no job. the other is afraid to ride the train and can't get a ride even though he has a mom, sister, and brother to do so, and the third guy doesn't drive or have a ride. So do these guys like me or no? Well even if they did none of them sound like winners. The lack of instigation may be with how long you guys texted before met up and/or to see if you were interested 2
Keenly Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I'm going to try and speak through my prism here... When I first realize I am into a girl, I will initiate contact, text, dates, etc blah blah blah. If I see that she is not even trying, or distracted (as I would imagine you would be juggling three at once ) then I'll just stop until she actually shows me some interest. To be honest though, it sounds like your just leading them all on and milking the attention, so I am not surprised if they caught on to that.
TheZebra Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 You're pretty good at picking the winners, aren't you? I'd say keep looking...
ana0pera Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 these guys aren't worth your time and don't worry about if they like you or not. NEXT
Lani Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 All 3 guys have done the same thing? I'm inclined to think you've done something wrong here... In any case, they do sound pretty lame. 'Afraid of catching the train'? come on.
rocketman122 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 yes, they all are into you..by your post, I too wouldnt contact you anymore.
CC12 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 The number one way people show their attraction to others is to make an effort to get to know them. These guys are no longer making an effort to know you, so I'd say they aren't into you. Why couldn't you have gone to meet them?
Eternal Sunshine Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Unless a guy writes a 5 page poem and signs it in his own blood, he is not into you. (stealing this from MrCastle )
phineas Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I'm going to try and speak through my prism here... When I first realize I am into a girl, I will initiate contact, text, dates, etc blah blah blah. If I see that she is not even trying, or distracted (as I would imagine you would be juggling three at once ) then I'll just stop until she actually shows me some interest. To be honest though, it sounds like your just leading them all on and milking the attention, so I am not surprised if they caught on to that. pretty much this. I'm guessing this wasn't something that happened just last week. Probably over months & did they ask her to meet out before at all?
Bristolius Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 How old are you Napy? How old are the guys?
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 He could always steal a horse and make the effort. If they're into you. They'd stole a horse and seen you. It's the only way to tell if a Guy loves you, he steals horses, or tips cows. No. Even if they where, they aren't initiating contact unless you do. They aren't putting effort into seeing you. Find someone who at least shows effort.
Author napy666 Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 I'm 25. And its now only 2 guys, one guy is 18 and the other is 19. 18 year old doesn't drive. 19 year old is the one who's afraid to ride the train. And I have told them I want to meet but it isn't happening.
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I'm 25. And its now only 2 guys, one guy is 18 and the other is 19. 18 year old doesn't drive. 19 year old is the one who's afraid to ride the train. And I have told them I want to meet but it isn't happening. What the f-- Uh, how bout looking for men 20 and up? 1
Author napy666 Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 What the f-- Uh, how bout looking for men 20 and up? I have no luck or if I do find a guy all they want is sex haha.
Lani Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I have no luck or if I do find a guy all they want is sex haha. At least they want to see you...
KungFuJoe Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I have no luck or if I do find a guy all they want is sex haha. Do you know how to make a good sandwich? Guys will take that, too.
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I have no luck or if I do find a guy all they want is sex haha. You're 25!! You're going after boys?? Come on!
veggirl Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Umm so you run into too many guys who want sex and your solution is to date teenagers? Do you really think teenage boys are seeking Long term relationships? I think "has reliable transportation" needs to be on your "must have" list. Also maybe "graduated high school at least 3 years ago" 1
Author napy666 Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 Umm so you run into too many guys who want sex and your solution is to date teenagers? Do you really think teenage boys are seeking Long term relationships? I think "has reliable transportation" needs to be on your "must have" list. Also maybe "graduated high school at least 3 years ago" Some might want a long term relationship.
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 None might want a long term relationship. Fixed it. They're going back to their friends and high fiving each other that they're hooking up with a 25 year old, not pondering the idea of forming a meaningful exclusive relationship. 1
chex Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Huh what would people say if there was a 25 y/o guy posting about dating an 18 year old? They would probably be high fiving him. Some things about this board just confuse me.
Astra5 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 First of all.... Pick guys your own age not little boys... Second... stop stringing so many along. Focus on just one maybe and with your focus might come some clarity on who the actual person is behind the texts... And third... You sound like you need a lesson in maturity before you end up looking like a fool or caught up in your triangle of deceit. Finally...If those guys knew you had so many others at once... they would not think so highly of you I would guess.......
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