Sarahbee Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 The older I get the more confused I feel about les hommes....this is something I've been pondering recently as I've just started dating again after my last break up, and it 's to do with being sexy. Do guys like a girl to dress in a way that makes the most of what she has (ie sexy), and thereby attract attention from other men, or do they prefer women to dress down so as not to attract attention? My last bf loved the way I dressed and always told me so, but I think it also made him feel a bit insecure sometimes when we were out and other guys would look at me. When I broke up with him he said that someone else would sweep me away because I was so sexy (that hasn't happened yet ;-)). I tend to think that we need to rock it, and if you've got it flaunt it etc, but at the same time I don't want to put men off by dressing too sexily...is that possible?
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 The older I get the more confused I feel about les hommes....this is something I've been pondering recently as I've just started dating again after my last break up, and it 's to do with being sexy. Do guys like a girl to dress in a way that makes the most of what she has (ie sexy), and thereby attract attention from other men, or do they prefer women to dress down so as not to attract attention? My last bf loved the way I dressed and always told me so, but I think it also made him feel a bit insecure sometimes when we were out and other guys would look at me. When I broke up with him he said that someone else would sweep me away because I was so sexy (that hasn't happened yet ;-)). I tend to think that we need to rock it, and if you've got it flaunt it etc, but at the same time I don't want to put men off by dressing too sexily...is that possible? It's very possible. For me, my manhood is of quite some size. So sometimes I have to keep it taped to my leg or something. Even though I'd like to let it show at times inside my pants. I think it all comes down to what you want to do for yourself. 1
aussietigerwolf Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 It's very possible. For me, my manhood is of quite some size. So sometimes I have to keep it taped to my leg or something. Even though I'd like to let it show at times inside my pants. I think it all comes down to what you want to do for yourself. yes... i'm sure it is lol. just wear what you're comfortable in.
KungFuJoe Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 It's very possible. For me, my manhood is of quite some size. So sometimes I have to keep it taped to my leg or something. Even though I'd like to let it show at times inside my pants. I think it all comes down to what you want to do for yourself. What kind of tape do you use? I used to use duct tape because it stuck real well, but my god, I had to get **** faced drunk before I could remove it...cuz it hurt like hell! Now I use electrical tape. Plus, if I ever need to splice a wire in a jiffy, it doubles as shrink tubing. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 yes... i'm sure it is lol. just wear what you're comfortable in. Do you like to show off your curves or what?
MrCastle Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 it doubles as shrink tubing. Your tube doesn't need any more shrinking. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Your tube doesn't need any more shrinking. Killin' me man.:lmao: 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Your tube doesn't need any more shrinking. As soon as I clicked Submit, I was hoping no one would go there. :/ 2
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 yes... i'm sure it is lol. just wear what you're comfortable in. Aussietigerwolf, your reverse psychology is working. Trying to resist.
FitChick Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Dressing sexy and dressing slutty are two different things. A male friend gave me dating advice many years ago: "Dress sexy but act demure. Not the reverse!" 1
charlietheginger Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 If i can see nipples through a top or the back of your panties sticking Over the top of your jeans trashy
aussietigerwolf Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Aussietigerwolf, your reverse psychology is working. Trying to resist. muahahahahaha my evil plan is working!
phineas Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 What kind of tape do you use? I used to use duct tape because it stuck real well, but my god, I had to get **** faced drunk before I could remove it...cuz it hurt like hell! Now I use electrical tape. Plus, if I ever need to splice a wire in a jiffy, it doubles as shrink tubing. Electrical tape? It doesn't breathe. I use an ace bandage & butterfly clips.
phineas Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 The older I get the more confused I feel about les hommes....this is something I've been pondering recently as I've just started dating again after my last break up, and it 's to do with being sexy. Do guys like a girl to dress in a way that makes the most of what she has (ie sexy), and thereby attract attention from other men, or do they prefer women to dress down so as not to attract attention? My last bf loved the way I dressed and always told me so, but I think it also made him feel a bit insecure sometimes when we were out and other guys would look at me. When I broke up with him he said that someone else would sweep me away because I was so sexy (that hasn't happened yet ;-)). I tend to think that we need to rock it, and if you've got it flaunt it etc, but at the same time I don't want to put men off by dressing too sexily...is that possible? Ok, real answer, some men do, some don't. If you dress sexy & I go to the bathroom or go to the bar to grab us drinks & when I return you are chatting up some guy or guys & they run away when I get there & you act like "oh, they were so friendly" i'd probably give you cab fare & bail. I've dated women like this & it's a total nightmare. However, if you are a respectful woman that recognizes the ONLY reason those men are talking to you is because you are dressed sexy & they want to sleep with you & you milk them for drinks for us? Oh, you're a keeper.
soccerrprp Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I love it when my lady dresses attractively! Not provocatively and not with the intent to showcase herself to gain the attention of other men. If she's dressed for me and for the occasion, I'm good. But, there are some ladies who dress for vanity's sake. Not too attractive....
pbjbear Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Do what you want. Dont come to men asking about this...every man will be different. Personally, I believe in finding a balance Its similar to the "should I put out somewhat early or make him wait" Every guy is different and I find men are often hypocritical meaning they will push a woman to have sex with him and then judge her afterwards/leave her I have had a lot of men say to me women should always dress sexy and so on, but then call her names or judge her overall. I try to flaunt what I got but not overly so...plus the men you attract when you REALLY flaunt are not guys who are good boyfriend material, which is what Im looking for more
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