zxcvzxcv321 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Hi, this may be an obvious question, however, I'd like to hear a female point of view. I met this girl about 4 years ago, we were talking for 2 hours or so, and then it turned out that she had a boyfriend. Two years later, I ran into her again, at a bar, so I asked her if she was still in that relationship, she told me she just broke up, so I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me. When I called her, she told me that as she was just finishing a relationship, and she wasn't ready for dating etc etc. A couple of weeks ago, I had to use an old contacts backup I had, since I lost my cell phone, and there I saw her contact. I decided to text her, and she inmediatly remembered me, she told me right away the 2 places we've met before (2 and 4 years ago). Then I told her I was out of town, and asked her if she wanted to do something at my return. She said yes. One week later I returned and we exchange many text messages while we were trying to setup a date, and she always answered like very friendly. We were supposed to meet on thursday, and finally she told me she had to work late, so she suggested saturday, and I said, ok. Finally, this saturday I texted her saying something like "should i pick you up at 9?", and she didn't answer. After one hour, I called her and she didn't answer so I leave her a voice message. That's it, I haven't contacted her again, but the thing is that I really like her. Should I just move on?? I know that's the correct answer, however, I don't get to meet girls like her that often. Should I swallow my pride and contact her again? I know she won't contact me, even if she wants to because she must me ashamed or something. Is she afraid of falling in love? LOL. Your opinions are welcome
Ami1uwant Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I agree....should look to move on. the ball is in her court...she has your number...its up to her. Though I am surprised she bothered to respond to you if she wasnt at least interested.
Brunettie Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 You can try one more time if you'd like. it's ok.
Author zxcvzxcv321 Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 I know how to read the signs when someone is interested, sadly when that happens, is always some girl I'm not that interested. I think I'm not alone in this kind of situations. I'll might send her one last text message, finally there's not much to lose at this point.
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