HopelessRomantic76 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 i would never cheat on my boyfriend i just feel guilty that i always admire how hot his friend is..im a very visual person and just love to admire his good looks.Have any of u felt this way about your mans friend and if so how did u handle it?
Alia_alia Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 i would never cheat on my boyfriend i just feel guilty that i always admire how hot his friend is..im a very visual person and just love to admire his good looks.Have any of u felt this way about your mans friend and if so how did u handle it? Jesus christ. You sound like a 15 year old. Grow up. 1
aed Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 mabey you should watch the most recent episode of How I met Your Mother.
CptObvious Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 why does she need to grow up? OP, do whatever you feel like. It's not like you're going to get married with your bf, have 10 kids, and then live happily ever after. That ****'s going down the ****ter anyways. Have fun!
Casablanca Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 i would never cheat on my boyfriend i just feel guilty that i always admire how hot his friend is..im a very visual person and just love to admire his good looks.Have any of u felt this way about your mans friend and if so how did u handle it? How are things with you and your boyfriend? Are you still attracted to him? Do you two still get a long? I have been in your shoes before sort of. I dated a girl for 2 months, I found my self incredibly attracted to her best friend who was not only more attractive, but was a lot more fun to be around and that was the big sign for me that what I had needed to end. Even had her best friend not been around, I wouldn't have been with her much longer as there were a few problems
Alia_alia Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 why does she need to grow up? OP, do whatever you feel like. It's not like you're going to get married with your bf, have 10 kids, and then live happily ever after. That ****'s going down the ****ter anyways. Have fun! It's about your core values. Stuff that IS attractive. If you don't learn certain DO's and DONT's then life is gonna teach them to you. No matter who you are going to be with, there is always going to be physical attraction for someone else. There is always going to be someone else that is better at something. Therefore if you think you can't deal with it, then why get in a relationship in the first place?.? If you think you are not attracted to your bf, then break up with him, but don't go pursuing his best friends. Remember core values are what makes you YOU. Are you going to be the girl who left X guy for his friend Y? Or are you going to be the girl who gives everything she can to her man? Which one do you think sounds better? 1
aussietigerwolf Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 you can be attracted to someone without wanting to do anything about it. 1
AMusing Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Let me guess: the friend has a perfect nose. Had I not read your last thread, I would've said that being attracted to people other than your boyfriend is normal. Just don't act on the attraction and there's no harm. However, given your nose job post, it sounds like you are not attracted to your poor boyfriend. Which is fine, we all have preferences, but if that's the case then both of you would be happier if you moved on to someone who is more your type.
PJKino Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 you can be attracted to someone without wanting to do anything about it. Thats true but seeing how married women wheter strangers or in our social circle react to my really good looking friend i see the ugly side of them add in alcohol where inhibitions lowered and horniness is raised most will be tempted around a really good looking person..
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