jkball Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 So since I finally decided to go NC about two weeks ago (after the BU which was Nov.1st) she has called twice. The thing is we have two dogs we got together, and last time I saw her she came over to take them on a run. I was still trying to apologize, get her back, etc. but I am sure I looked pitiful. Anyways at that time I told her to come over and take them on a walk when she wanted to. Really I just want to keep some kind of relationship with her. I am feeling very guilty about everything I did to cause the BU, even though she broke up with me and she never let on that things I was doing were not OK wit her. So now she has called twice during the last two weeks and I ignored her calls, no voicemail was left. So I know now that I need to heal and I can't see her or talk to her. But I am wondering should I just text her and let her know I missed her calls but if she wants to see the dogs I'll arrange to leave a key and I'll leave my house for a bit while she comes over. I feel like I should because I guess I feel guilty for the things I did (trying to change her, being critical, etc., the whole story is in my original post but really long). So if anyone has the time I would appreciate any advice.
TopCat22 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 No. Simply put, if she ended it, it is up to her to come back. Do NOT chase her and do not contact her. If she calls again then politely tell her that you need the time and space to heal.
Author jkball Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 Thanks for the advice topcat, I figured that was the best thing to do but it's always good to get some support on this, thanks.
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