4givrnt4gtr Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Ive been dating this wonderful man for 9 months now. THis weekend we moved in together and also celebrated my birthday. More and more I am realizing how wonderful he is, how caring, supportive and wonderful. While moving i had to take some time to do some work i needed for a deadline i had, and all the while he continued making our new place wonderful, taking care of me, moving things for me, he even brought me flowers at the end of the night. He moved both his and my apartment, he paid for everything, downpayment, moving expenses, everything. On top of it, he made plans and time to surprised me for my birthday by taking me to this place where they can help me find running shoes that wont hurt my aching knees and bought the shoes for me. He then took me to a restaurant that serve food from my country of origin. And then, as if that was not enough he took me to watch a movie he had told me he really did not want to see but since he knew i wanted to watch it, he sat the almost three hours, just for me. I love him very very much. Feeling how much he loves me sometimes overwhelms me and makes me feel like I dont deserve it. I keep thinking about ways that I can demonstrate my love for him, but everything i think about comes up short of how he has made me feel. Its odd but i just dont want him to feel like i take him for granted. I also want him to feel as loved as he makes me feel...and Im not sure how to go about doing that.... So question is...how do men typically feel loved and appreciated? What can I do to make sure he feels as cared for as I do???
jamiejones Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Men are simple creatures. Sex, food and beer. However, as a man I think I appreciate it when a women show's that she wants me and doesn't need me. "Want" and "Need" are two different things and showing that you desire him will work every time. Needy women are not for me.
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