headswitch Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 My girlfriend just broke up with me last week. I am completely devastated about this. We had made many plans for the future together and she told me that she really loved me because I was not scared to talk about our future together. Then all of a sudden I go to see her and she drops the bomb on me. And it really did feel like a bomb. We had been talking all week about plans and everything. We have both a very good phsyical and very spiritual relationship together. She just told me that she didnt love me anymore. I know deep in her heart she does, otherwise we wouldnt have made so many plans together. I feel so confused about this because she really is the sweetest girl I have ever been with, and I knew the instant I saw her that something was bothering her that day she broke up with me. I sent her a package today with all her stuff she had left at my house with the most sincere 4 page letter I have ever wrote in my life. We are both very close to god, and I know that this is not her, she is not acting like the sweet woman I knew. She is not the type of person to cheat or lie to me. We have never gotten into a fight before or anything. It was the best relationship we both have ever had. I just dont understand. I want her back so badly and this pain I have inside, is the worst pain I have ever felt before. I have been with someone I thought I loved before, but this woman is the one I truly loved. Everything about our relationship was magical. And I just dont understand how such a great relationship can end so abrupt and without warning. I want her back so bad. Please pray for me and her and please help me with this.
Starnette83 Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 thats weird that she would break up with you, you should try and talk to her and ask her why? and if she insists that she doesnt love you, just give her space to figure it out alone. You sound like a really sweet and caring guy, and maybe shes just scared of commitment, how long have u been together and how old r both of u? Just stay strong and know God does things for a reason, things we dont understand at the moments, dont worry, i think she'll change her mind and if she doesn't well you gotta keep strong and realize that love that feels so perfect can come to an end for a reason..and the reason is only known months or a year later, either way dont worry! *~Love is ?!?~* Love makes u smile, but can also make u cry, but love can also help u grow and make u better then u thought!
Pocky Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 She didn't give you any reason as to why she was ending the relationship?
Author headswitch Posted August 24, 2004 Author Posted August 24, 2004 She told me that she was praying for an answer from god to give her a sign, that this relationship was right. We are both 22 and uh I just know that this is not the way it is supposed to be. I feel like someone has taken away something that was so right and good. She told me that she just didnt love me anymore. I know that this is not the truth otherwise why say all the things we did? She is a real honest woman and a very good person. And this is totally not in her character. She told me she wanted more time for everything to happen, and I told her that all we have is time together. All life is is time. We need time to grow and strengthen our relationship. She is moving out of state in 5 weeks and we had planned that we would move together to better both our lives. And during last week we talked about our plans and everything. I talked to her last night for about an hour telling her that this feeeling I have is just not right. I told her we do need time and we can make time together to make this work. This just doesnt seem like the same woman I know. Im so heart broken over her.
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