BiancaLDN Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 I went full NC, and gave my phone to a friend for a few days, just got it back, turned it on and there are a few messages here, from her. Do I message her back? I know you'll all say no
WhatYouWantToHear Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 I know you'll all say no And why will we say no?
itsmyfault Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 If she wants you back she will move heaven and earth. Until such a time ignore ignore ignore.
Author BiancaLDN Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 And why will we say no? 'Cos...it's not the right thing, etc. I wish love wasn't involved - I don't hate her, I care about her deeply!
iouaname Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 What were the messages? Were they explaining that she wanted to get back together?
Author BiancaLDN Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 What were the messages? Were they explaining that she wanted to get back together? Basically she thinks that I'm ignoring her, I'm unsure if I should text back to that no, I wasn't, I just didn't have my phone around. Make up some story about having dropped it and had to send it away, etc. But no, not back together.
flitzanu Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Basically she thinks that I'm ignoring her, I'm unsure if I should text back to that no, I wasn't, I just didn't have my phone around. Make up some story about having dropped it and had to send it away, etc. But no, not back together. i feel like you've ignored me too. are you going to text me now?
meeji Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 let her keep thinking about whether or not you are ignoring her. My ex asked me "Do you hate me?" I said no.. and then later on I thought about it.. he just wanted to feel better about everything that has happened and I should have dodged that question... I think of this as something similar. she is wanting you to reassure her that she isn't the bad guy.
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