cavalier99 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 we dated for one month. Listen. I know your worried but it will be fine. You don't know it was 100 percent him. Also if he did drive by it might be that he wanted to see you then decided it was a super bad idea and left. If you find him doing it again or waiting for you in front of your house id start to get worried. But for now i wouldn't get all worked up. You'll be fine. Ok?
Coping Vortex Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 we dated for one month. Don't worry if they drive by, Worry if they stop. 2
Stoic44 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 we dated for one month. The length of time is short, but it is enough for him to become infatuated, especially if there was lots of intimate physical contact involved in the "dating." I got infatuated with a girl after about that time and wanted to be with her. Lost my cool a bit in the breakup, because I was blindsided (she went back to an ex I never knew about)--but not the type to drive by her place. I wouldn't worry unless he keeps popping up.
Author mayita Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 The length of time is short, but it is enough for him to become infatuated, especially if there was lots of intimate physical contact involved in the "dating." I got infatuated with a girl after about that time and wanted to be with her. Lost my cool a bit in the breakup, because I was blindsided (she went back to an ex I never knew about)--but not the type to drive by her place. I wouldn't worry unless he keeps popping up. Well he told me he was with someone else. So .... I mean go with her and do not come home.
Author mayita Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 He came by today again (I believe so) and left a fast food bag full of empty wrappers in front of my house. My house is very isolated and there is no way this was not intentional. I picked up the wrappers and they were breakfast fast food ones. So that means he came this morning or he came tonite and decided to let me know that he was here. I have been here for 2 years and there have never been anything in front of my door like that. This is getting really stupid.
Stoic44 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Strange. Can you setup a camera? You can call the cops also...they could maybe pay him a visit.
Author mayita Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 LE wont do anything unless a crime is commited. But i will have my alarm system installed soon. That will deter him. My thing is he was the one who told me he is with someone else and i was ok with it. It when i mentioned another man that he went crazy (so i believe he is coming to see if this other man is coming here at night) .... But he has a gf!!!!!
cavalier99 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 LE wont do anything unless a crime is commited. But i will have my alarm system installed soon. That will deter him. My thing is he was the one who told me he is with someone else and i was ok with it. It when i mentioned another man that he went crazy (so i believe he is coming to see if this other man is coming here at night) .... But he has a gf!!!!! Id call the cops and see what they have to say. That is f*cked up. They should at least know who he is and your concerns.
Author mayita Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 Id call the cops and see what they have to say. That is f*cked up. They should at least know who he is and your concerns. I know the cops cant really do anything unless he does something. And without proof there is really nothing I can do. Just wait and be proactive and live my life. I will not allow this sicko to bother me. 1
Stoic44 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 LE wont do anything unless a crime is commited. But i will have my alarm system installed soon. That will deter him. My thing is he was the one who told me he is with someone else and i was ok with it. It when i mentioned another man that he went crazy (so i believe he is coming to see if this other man is coming here at night) .... But he has a gf!!!!! Trespassing/vandalism so far, possiblt...call them.and see what they have to say...
Author mayita Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 I will thanks. The bag was outside my door. Kind of like letting me know he is watching. Oh where are my nosey neighbors now that I need them!!!!!
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