Sunslides Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 However... This story has a special twist! I'll be brief. She left me for someone else, I was Heartbroken. Then, I see her in a bar and of course we talked and finished at my place and you know the rest. We saw each other two other times. She was in the process of moving out of her ex new boyfriend... During this time, she told me things like how it was the biggest mistake she ever made leaving me, she was ALWAYS thinking about me, How much she loved me, how I was right about the new guy... Hmmmm... And now... not a peep from her anymore! lol! You wanna know why I laugh... I think I got closure! The things she said made me feel right about myself... I actually really don't miss her so much anymore! PS: I am pretty sure she stopped the move since she is scared of her new ex-boyfriend. So she probably went back to him... Thoughts?
Coping Vortex Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 However... This story has a special twist! I'll be brief. She left me for someone else, I was Heartbroken. Then, I see her in a bar and of course we talked and finished at my place and you know the rest. We saw each other two other times. She was in the process of moving out of her ex new boyfriend... During this time, she told me things like how it was the biggest mistake she ever made leaving me, she was ALWAYS thinking about me, How much she loved me, how I was right about the new guy... Hmmmm... And now... not a peep from her anymore! lol! You wanna know why I laugh... I think I got closure! The things she said made me feel right about myself... I actually really don't miss her so much anymore! PS: I am pretty sure she stopped the move since she is scared of her new ex-boyfriend. So she probably went back to him... Thoughts? Sounds only like a look back. My ex did this to me several times over the last few weeks and she said the same things to me. She loved me and didn't love him etc. Then she dumped for good after the second time seeing me.
Author Sunslides Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 But I am ok with it now... And at least, I told her how she betrayed me I feel a thousand pounds lighter!!!
Coping Vortex Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 But I am ok with it now... And at least, I told her how she betrayed me I feel a thousand pounds lighter!!! Glad to see you recovered so quickly., For some of us,we will mourn the loss of ex's for months or years.
Author Sunslides Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 I know buddy... I was with her for 10 months only... Then apart 4 months... then this. It was a lot harder with my other ex... She cheated on me and we were togheter for 6 years (with a child) We all get knocked down... But we get back up again!
KatZee Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 We all get knocked down... But we get back up again! You're never going to keep me down! 2
Chi townD Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Now, back to the hard part! Back to NC. You gave her a chance and she did it to you again! Hopefully, this is NOW the wake up call you needed.
Author Sunslides Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 I am amazed on all the posts on this thread... Cheers!
Author Sunslides Posted January 28, 2013 Author Posted January 28, 2013 And back again!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! Will this ever end! People... I... just don't get it... I just don't! but, i'll enjoy the ride for the time being! I guess nothing is real in this world anymore... The worst thing is... SHE wants ME... I have the choice to take or leave it... But since I am over her... i'll play a bit too! Ya... Call me a SOB.. But... This is a great feeling!!! I'll keep you all posted!
LduKaZ Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 She sounds like an emotional train wreck. If I was you Id leave her to her misery. After all you dont want her anymore. Be careful if you stick with playing with her. Remember the old saying, if you play with fire, you are bound to get burnt. 1
Chi townD Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 And back again!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! Will this ever end! People... I... just don't get it... I just don't! but, i'll enjoy the ride for the time being! I guess nothing is real in this world anymore... The worst thing is... SHE wants ME... I have the choice to take or leave it... But since I am over her... i'll play a bit too! Ya... Call me a SOB.. But... This is a great feeling!!! I'll keep you all posted! She wants you to do....what exactly? She had you and then threw you away. Dude, I hope I'm wrong and I'll be the first to admit it to you, but if she's trying to get back with you, I think you'll be the way station until she finds someone else. 1
Author Sunslides Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 I agree, and she will do it again... with me or another guy! I am not sure what is happening now but ... I do admit, she is an emotional train wreck!!! On another note, a buddy of mine : Married 12 years 2 kids - She just left him. He is completely destroyed. Now tell me people : Do you SERIOUSLY still believe in staying with the same person ALL your life???? People are getting more and more divorced everyday!! PS: I am not even sure if I am still seeing the emotional train wreck right now!!! SHE is one screwed up girl!!
Author Sunslides Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Nope! I have someone else in an ... Open relationship! I am happy!
meeji Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 And back again!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! Will this ever end! People... I... just don't get it... I just don't! but, i'll enjoy the ride for the time being! I guess nothing is real in this world anymore... The worst thing is... SHE wants ME... I have the choice to take or leave it... But since I am over her... i'll play a bit too! Ya... Call me a SOB.. But... This is a great feeling!!! I'll keep you all posted! I can't say that if I were in your situation that I wouldn't also let it marinate for a while. Once the ball is back in your court, its ok to dribble it just a little. Don't go crazy tho! 1
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