lfliliu Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Ill make it as short as possible: I am a college student. We met last Spring (We knew each other but we formally introduced each other at that time). We had a good conversation and she was showing good signs (body and feet pointed at me, smiling and giving me her total attention). Then I didn't see her till the ending of Spring ( I was pledging). On a house party that she and some of her sorority sisters (it is a tiny one, like 20 girls), I first talked about her and asked some questions about her to one of her sisters and THEN made out with one of her sisters. The thing is, she started acting cold after that, and with due reason. But then this past fall rolled in and we one night on another house party I saw her again and I started talking to her and she acted cold, but after 20 minutes, she just stood like 5 feet from me and stared at my eyes smiling... And then 2 weeks from that day I was playing bowling with some friends at an event and then she decided to approach and play on the same lane as me... There were like other 20 lanes ready to be used, why mine specifically... I like this girl, what should I do... Is she mad at me? Why is she doing those things then!
UStoUK Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 After kissing her college "sister" I think it's pretty obvious why she was acting cold. A woman needs to feel that she's the only thing you want/need. It seems to me from what you posted, that she probably does like you. If you really like this girl and want to make something of it you're going to have to show her that she's all your interested in. Good Luck and keep your lips off the college sisters LOL!
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Ill make it as short as possible: I am a college student. We met last Spring (We knew each other but we formally introduced each other at that time). We had a good conversation and she was showing good signs (body and feet pointed at me, smiling and giving me her total attention). Then I didn't see her till the ending of Spring ( I was pledging). On a house party that she and some of her sorority sisters (it is a tiny one, like 20 girls), I first talked about her and asked some questions about her to one of her sisters and THEN made out with one of her sisters. The thing is, she started acting cold after that, and with due reason. But then this past fall rolled in and we one night on another house party I saw her again and I started talking to her and she acted cold, but after 20 minutes, she just stood like 5 feet from me and stared at my eyes smiling... And then 2 weeks from that day I was playing bowling with some friends at an event and then she decided to approach and play on the same lane as me... There were like other 20 lanes ready to be used, why mine specifically... I like this girl, what should I do... Is she mad at me? Why is she doing those things then! She may have been acting cold even though she is not attracted to you. Sometimes women get jealous of your attention. In other words, she wants your attention, but she is not attracted to you. Nevertheless, I'd say it's worth taking a shot.
Author lfliliu Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 then why is she doing all those little things. Like she went out of her way to actually get my attention. She stood literally 5 feet from me, while I was talking to a friend at the house party and stared at me for like a minute...
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