trevjim Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Ok i am a postman (24) on my round towards the end of it, is a cafe at which a stunning girl works, ive only had post for her cafe once or twice and its always been hard to get a conversation going due to customers and he boss/ co workers. Also its really hard to see in to see if she is on her own, so i dont want to walk in with no mail to ask her out and she be surrounded by her boss or something. Any advice on how to approach the matter? if the chance comes i will try and chat her up but i dont think it will so im guessing i need to create the moment. also im being moved to a new round soon so dont have long left! Idealy i would like to say hi and ask for her number, but if thats not an option, is putting a card with my number in with any mail for the cafe a good idea or is that creepy?
TaraMaiden Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Do you know her name? Write her a personal note, and pop it in an envelope.... 1
Author trevjim Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 Do you know her name? Write her a personal note, and pop it in an envelope.... No i dont, The opportunity hasnt arisen for that:mad:
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Ok i am a postman (24) on my round towards the end of it, is a cafe at which a stunning girl works, ive only had post for her cafe once or twice and its always been hard to get a conversation going due to customers and he boss/ co workers. Also its really hard to see in to see if she is on her own, so i dont want to walk in with no mail to ask her out and she be surrounded by her boss or something. Any advice on how to approach the matter? if the chance comes i will try and chat her up but i dont think it will so im guessing i need to create the moment. also im being moved to a new round soon so dont have long left! Idealy i would like to say hi and ask for her number, but if thats not an option, is putting a card with my number in with any mail for the cafe a good idea or is that creepy? It doesn't matter what you do. If she doesn't find you good looking, chances are you're going to get rejected. If she does, then you're in the running so long as you don't say something really vulgar or stupid. Just go do it, if she strikes your fancy so much.
weee111 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Can you figure out what time it's not as busy, and then bring the mail during that time?
gaius Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Since it's near the end of your route pop in after you're done and hang out for a while, see if you can get a chance to talk to her. If it's a cafe then order a coffee and some food, it will seem very normal. I don't know why but the whole passing her a letter seems like a bad idea to me. It's very indirect and women don't like indirect. Almost like giving her your phone number.
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