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Boyfriend wouldn't let me in at friend's house - What was going on?


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Posted
Originally posted by FoolsRushIn

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So my friends talked to my boyfriend on the phone ( He knows these people are your friend, He was not and DID NOT admit to any wrong doing on his part)

 

Well he then called me about two hours later, left me a message saying he wanted to call and check on me, said he was sorry, and hoped I would talk to him.

 

I know they were just trying to help, but I think my friends did more harm than good. Your friends didn't do this, He did this to you and His friend.

 

Before we had talked tonight, I felt like I didn't have a choice. I just had to move on. But now, he wants to fix things.

 

If he did nothing wrong then why fix it?????

 

 

I wish you the best in your life but I don'tthink this this guy is "The one":) JMHO

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Originally posted by RowanRavyn

The impression I got was that she rethought an invitation HE extended to her.

 

It sounds like there is growing up to do for everyone. If you learn from it, it is no longer a mistake, its a lesson. Please take the lesson on this one:

 

1. Don't create more drama than necessary to deal with something

2. If someone slams the door in your face, doesn't answer the bell or the phone, they aren't worth the time you spent ringing.

3. Friends are wonderful, but sometimes they have their own agenda. Follow your instinct (Which seemed to be no contact, move on.)

 

Peace

Great post Ravyn... my thoughts as well :)

  • 2 weeks later...
Posted

Hi!

 

I completely understand where you are coming from. An old boyfriend did that to me and I still don't know what happened.

 

What is going on now? I'd be anxious to know if he has come clean. I'd suggest you let him go...but with a fight first! Get to the bottom of it!

 

RED

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My Gut Instinct tells me he was having sex with * someone * behind those doors....

 

Or a Crack Meth Lab ?

 

Or his is Gay ?

 

It all adds up to 1+1 = Your A** is out Buddy !

 

Sorry....

Posted

Hey~ This guy sounds like a complete ass, who is not worth your time if he is treating you like that! Why be with someone who is going to leave you standing outside and ignored? F*** him! You deserve better, and obviously, you won't get it with him! Once you move on, you will feel MUCH happier!!! GoOd LuCk In WhAtEvEr YoU dO!!!!!!!!!

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An ex fiance did that to me once and I found out that he had a couple other women up in his apartment with him smoking pot. I did end the relationship soon after.

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