deekay Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 for a year, we've seen each other from time to time but didn't really talk until i started casually talking to her like, "yeah, not having fun at this place are you?" she just giggled and we kind of flirted only a bit but had to leave soon so i couldn't talk to her more.. then i added her on fb (we have a bunch of mutual friends) and then messaged her "hey thanks for the add sucks that we didnt get to know each other better =/" she replied, "Haha finally i dont check my fb status that much sorry And i wish we could talk more each other... Youre going back?" i said, "we can still talk while im gone til u see me again. ^^ idk much about u yet.. are u staying here temporarily?" btw i'm far away at college atm but going to return in a couple months.. and it's been 2 weeks since i sent that message; it said "Seen Jan. 4" and idk why she didnt reply.. what do you think? should i say something back? i talked to a close friend of mine about this (a female) and said that she might have just opened FB and was distracted by something else and forgot to reply, or other excuses.. any advice is appreciated.
harnold Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Its been 2 weeks dude, I really hope you dont think shes gonna respond to continue that conversation. Not only that, but if she hasn't messaged you back to initiate with you, shes probably not interested. If you want to pursue her, by all means, go ahead. Im certain you could still get somewhere with her. But you gotta change up the way you speak to her. Maybe what you posted isnt a fair representation of your conversations to her, but from what you DID post, you sound... boring. "Not having fun are you?" "Thanks for the add" "Sucks that I didn't get to know you better" Strike up another convo with her, but with more flair this time around
Author deekay Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 Its been 2 weeks dude, I really hope you dont think shes gonna respond to continue that conversation. Not only that, but if she hasn't messaged you back to initiate with you, shes probably not interested. If you want to pursue her, by all means, go ahead. Im certain you could still get somewhere with her. But you gotta change up the way you speak to her. Maybe what you posted isnt a fair representation of your conversations to her, but from what you DID post, you sound... boring. "Not having fun are you?" "Thanks for the add" "Sucks that I didn't get to know you better" Strike up another convo with her, but with more flair this time around alright, thx for the input.
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