bjjstar Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Hey guys, I'm new on this forum and currently I'm looking for some advice to try to get back with my ex girlfriend. So the situation here is that we were in a very good relationship before until I had to move all the way across the world and I didn't talk to her much afterwards. I know in the meantime she had gotten another boyfriend but has broken up recently. Now after six months I have moved back to where she is and I've seen her a few times already. The interactions went pretty good and we had some good conversations. But after hanging out we don't really text a lot unlike before she would text me all the time. I know I still like this girl a lot and definitely want to get back with her. I haven't told her anything about my feelings after I got back but I feel like she doesn't like me anymore and only view me as a friend. So can anyone please give me some advice on getting back with her? Thank you. Sorry for my bad english, it's not my first language.
Lani Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 You English is fine, far better than some others on this site who I believe actually have it as their first language. I think you should ask her out. Maybe tell her that seeing her since you've been back has made you realise you missed her, and you'd really like to hang out and catch up on some of the time you've missed. Don't tell her you think you want her back, because that might freak her out.
Author bjjstar Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 I've seen her a few times already and the interaction went pretty good. We had a fun time and talked about many things too. But right now she wouldn't initiate any text conversation or even any conversation. It's always me the one who's asking her out. Does that mean she only wants to be friends and nothing more?
Lani Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 It's hard to say, because I haven't seen her with you. Have you asked her if she'd like to do something with you?
Author bjjstar Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 This was last week, I asked her if I can go with her to some place with her friend. She said she'll ask then the next day she told me that she will be going this week instead. But I have yet from her. Last night I sent a little facebook message to her, it was nothing big, probably didn't worth replying to and yeah she didn't reply to me. Like I said when we were in a relationship, she would text me all the time but now she never talks first.
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