destroyed4sho Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Well, I have been in LC with my ex for about 5 months now and NC for 3 weeks. I haven't heard from him at all in these 3 weeks, but I am not over it so I still wish he would text me. I miss him a lot and I was shocked when he broke it off. Our relationship was about 2.5 years and we had a lot of arguments, but I had real love for him and I thought eventually we would figure it out. He did not want to talk about our issues and his way of figuring things out was to break up apparently. I am still having a difficult time understanding why he would do this even after he said he loved me still. Why wouldn't he want to talk about things and reconcile? Also, why do they still say they love you when it is quite obvious that they do not??
Samilia Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 It usually is a way to alleviate the guilt and to let you go down smoothly. Also loving someone is not the same as being in love.
CdnClass88 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 It usually is a way to alleviate the guilt and to let you go down smoothly. Also loving someone is not the same as being in love. Agreed, they just don't realize how much more confusing & difficult it makes it on you. My gf of 8 years did this to me a couple months ago, I know how it feels. Chin up though, life moves on
Eddie Edirol Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 He didnt want to talk about your issues, probably because he knew he would break it off eventually, and working on it wasnt worth it for him.
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