CARL45 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I've been doing cold approaching for the past three months and it really opens your eyes to dating. One of the things I've found is that some women will go out with you even if they have a boyfriend. Another thing that shocked me was the fact that most men have trouble making eye contact even with other men! I feel that I've learned a lot from doing this. I'm wondering if anyone has had any similar experiences?
Author CARL45 Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 Yes it is addicting. One thing that's fun about it is the rejections. I always say" What! all the hot girls must be on lists". Then she laughs. I really love the rejections because I can normally through out a line or two that's funny. I think now I'm going to go after college girls because there normally laid back and don't often get approached directly.
MrCastle Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 How many of these approaches actually turned into something substantial.
ThaWholigan Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 I've been doing cold approaching for the past three months and it really opens your eyes to dating. One of the things I've found is that some women will go out with you even if they have a boyfriend. Another thing that shocked me was the fact that most men have trouble making eye contact even with other men! I feel that I've learned a lot from doing this. I'm wondering if anyone has had any similar experiences? Cold approaching is very hit-and-miss - there is an art (and a science) to it, but there is no fool-proof method, and rejection is a guarantee at least half the time. There are people of both genders who respond to the Cold approach, but there are others who prefer familiarity i.e. Social Circle, work-related etc. The spectrum varies. The most recent date I had was from a Cold approach, someone I met at a bookstore a while back. So it does work to an extent. Nothing substantial though - like I said, hit and miss. 1
Author CARL45 Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 Most of the approach's don't turn into anything substantial. The thing that I like about doing it is that there are times when its just fun to give value to someone or to just banter around with another person. It's made me a more social person at the same time.
40 Fonzarelli Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Cold approach takes balls which is why it can turn on some women. It can be romantic also since it doesn't happen very often. Something out of the ordinary, as opposed to meeting someone at a bar or at work.
Samilia Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 I think that's cool to be so bald... good for you.
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