Ky25 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 My ex boyfriend and I have been though so much. And I can say that deep down I honestly love him and want to give him another chance, but that just puts myself in danger. We have a complicated story. For the first eight months of our relationship we were really happy and best friends. He's bipolar so he would always have break downs or become manic and always relied on me to be there and help him, And of course I did. Until he started drinking and abusing drugs. When I first met him I knew he had a past of using but not that bad only marijuana. But then he started drinking every night. An I wouldn't hear from him and he was lying to me about where he was and what he was doing. So I told him I couldn't put up with it anymore. A week later he calls me and tells me he got kicked out, so I told him he could stay at my house until he got things situated. The next thing I know he's having sex with some other girl and takes off and I don't hear from him for weeks. Until one night he drank so much he lost his keys and needed help finding them, so I went to help him. That week he kept trying to talk to me and told me he wanted to get back together and checked himself into rehab. I was very proud of him for doing what's right and gave him another chance after he got out. Things seemed great, better than ever until one night he didn't want to talk to me and was being short. I asked him if I made him happy and he told me he couldn't answer that. Come to find out he still had feelings for his ex girlfriend that he date before me. Because I loved him I told him to go get her. And be with her if its what makes him happy. I told him not to come back to me if it didn't work out just because he didn't want to be alone. I only wanted him to come back if he wanted to. Two days later I find out he's trying to talk to random girls and is telling people I'm disgusting because of my past and he never loved me he just felt bad. Last night I get a text from him telling me he misses me and wants to talk. I asked him why he would even think I would want to after all of the disrespectful things he said to me. He told me his friends were the ones making him feel that way to try and make him feel better but he didn't know if he could never fully love me because of his feelings for his ex which he got closure from and is moving on. Should I give him another chance or just move on and tell him I can't do that to myself?
Keenly Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I was on board with giving him a second chance until you said that he cheated on you. He told you by doing that that you are not that important. Personally I suggest you wait for some one who will treat you like their everything, and not their crutch.
Author Ky25 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 He didn't cheat on me.. We were technically broken up but not even for a week..
Keenly Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 If he is talking bad about you when your not around why do you want him
Author Ky25 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 I honestly don't know. We've just been through so much together it's hard to imagine moving on or being with someone else. And even though there were all of these bad times he's my best friend and has always been there for me too.
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