sleed Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I'm 25 and i've only had 1 real love till now. We had a relationship for 2 years and because i lacked maturity i left her , like an idiot. I tried breaking up with her so many times like 3(times) before she really gave up on me on the 4th time. The first 3 times she was the one to make me come back. It's been 10 months now and im still not over her. She had 2 other guys and she was just about to break up with the last guy she was with and she called me crying to come and support her and stuff. I went there and tried to cheer her up , we talked about getting back together. We made plans for our new relationship for like 1 week and a half. She tried to keep me at a distance physically and told me she needed to go to the shrink in this period because she was a mess because of her ex boyfriend.........buuuut she was actually keeping me on the loop , keeping me as a backup plan and was hoping that guy will come back. So she promised me a new relationship, i supported her, did everything right after she humiliated me for 5 months straight, i was there for her in her weakest moment......... and she took him back... she had to decide me or him and she chose again to take him back. I feel very deppresed because i can't come up with any good illusions or lies to keep seeing her like she once was (in love with me) , she clearly is over me and in love with this other guy, or just doesn't trust me . She said she took him back because he really needed her now , unlike me( yeah right) , she said she gave me way more chances then she gave him . All the motives seemed fake, the real reason seemed to be that she liked him way more because he was superior to me. I felt like total ****. She threw me away again for the 4th time after all the humiliation and begging she does this " we will be in a new relationship ... he is back.... so **** you bye!" Last edited by Sleed; Today at 09:18 PM.
Chi townD Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Now is the time to go totally dark on her. A complete NC. Delete her from your twitter, block her on FB and block her number from your phone. You fell off the face of the planet. Sooner or later, this douche rocket is going to curb her again and she's probably gonna come running looking for you again. Make yourself unavailable. Time to heal and move on dude.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Please don't hurt yourself anymore. Don't contact her and stop being her door mat. She chose him because she knew no matter what she has you. If she chose you he would move on. Right now she doesn't love you. Anything you do doesn't matter. What matters is you heal from her
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