mustangguy29 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 (edited) Decided to delete my story. Edited January 21, 2013 by mustangguy29 I guess no one wants to give me feedback....
OJ loved Nicole Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Too late buddy, I already read it, and was writing while you deleted it. First thing, buy/read "Married Man Sex Life Primer" by Athol Kay. Don't take my word, google it, read reviews. I've been studying relationships for the last year or so and I kept seeing MMSL referenced over and over. I decided to buy it, it's worth the $10. Athol explains why this happens over time in relationships and why it can be a death sentence. There are 2 causes that stick out. -You're losing in your sex rank- Ever see a beautiful woman and say "damn, she's an 8"? Well we all have a sex rank, and we judge others continuously. I don't know your situation but if you both met and were both 8's, but over time you gained some weight, lost some hair, less fashionable, less fun, etc. Well your sex rank went down. If you're now a 7 and she's still an 8, well why would she want to have sex with you? Please google "Sex Rank Affects Every Relationship You Have". -Alpha/Beta Imbalance- To have a successful relationship you can't be 100% beta or 100% alpha. Becoming too alpha or especially too beta will kill her sexual desire for you. When you're sitting on the couch and cuddling, it's ok to be beta (kisses on the cheek, etc.) but don't transfer that over to letting her decide where to go to dinner later (time to be a leader). It's a fine line at times, the book explains it in better detail. For now google "Male Action Plan". Correcting these will not guarantee she'll start having sex with you again (it may be too far gone) but its great information to have, either for this or future relationships. So get sexy, balance the alpha/beta, and if it doesn't work out/get better.... you'll be primed for your next adventure.
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