missa203322 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 So I was buying this car off cl and in the regularity of these situations I went to look at said car. To my surprise the owner of the car was very attractive,like drooling attractive. I thought to myself that either way it wouldn't be a total waste of my time if I bought the car or not because I got a great view, right. Well anyway he was a chatter, which I didn't mind because all of what he was saying was actually pretty interesting. After he showed me the car and we took it on a test drive we sat and chatted while the car was looked over by a mechanic. An hour and some odd minutes later the report on the car was done and there were a few issues so we easily worked out a deal that made us both happy. He was very nice and gave me a big break on the car because he didn't want to screw me over and he sympathized with the fact that I'm a single mom. In fact, he told me I could owe him one and maybe go see a movie or something with him because it was about time he got out there again. The next day he calls me to find out if I know where he can get a bike until he buys another form of transportation. I replied by saying since he did me a solid I could certainly lend him my road bike. Later I dropped it off at his work but he was busy in an apt so I didn't get to hang around and say hello. That evening he texted me thanking me for the bike and regreted that he didn't get to say hi. A day later he calls me to tell me he's done using my bike and I agree to go pick it up. This time he stopped working and walked me to my car with bike in hand. He even mentioned that the people at his work thought I was his gf. When we said goodbye I didn't get a hug , he just told me that I could call him anytime for anything. NOOOW idk what to do from this point. I don't want a relationship, just hang out with possible benefits. I am worried for three reasons that he may not be interested in me: 1. My sister said I looked like a soccer mom because I work Nike's with my jeans. 2. I have a child and so does he but his child is only 6 years younger than me. 3. He is over-the-top good looking. Like walk into a bar and take his pick good looking and I am pretty, but a tad thicker. He could def score the hot beach blonde. PS With regards to the age difference, I am in the habit of dating men considerably older. There is about a 20 year age difference between him and I. SO MY NEXT MOVE??! I'm used to guys pursuing me, but I don't want him to think I'm not interested.
Lani Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Give him a call- you've got nothing to lose. Be cheeky about it, and say something like 'You said I could call if I needed anything... well, i sort of need someone to have dinner with on Thursday.' And see how it goes! In any case, don't wear Nikes with jeans unless you're dressing up as Jerry Seinfeld. 1
charlietheginger Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Tell him the car he sold you is making a funny noise And if he will check out the noise. Go see him flirt Tell him lets go for a ride it only makes the noise when You drive. Goto a parking lot unzip his pants give him a BJ what else do you do? You say you dont want a relationship and only seek a fwb Situation. Well then get the benifits rolling
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