mattboltz Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 This girl and I have been dating for the last few weeks, and have both acknowledged that we have feelings for each other but did not make anything official before I went back to school. She is independent and I dont want to come off as too clingy but also dont want to come off as a jerk. Her birthday is coming up in about a week and a half. Being that we are not officially together, should I get her something like flowers or chocolate, or just give her a phone call? What kind of experience do yall have in this situation? Your advice is appreciated!
missa203322 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Get her something! If you want her to make that next commitment step then you need to show her that you are good bf material. Girls love when they know they are thought of. It will win you major points. A call will get you nowhere.
Lani Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 So you won't be seeing her for her birthday? If not, send her flowers, or balloons (being sent balloons rocks!). If you are seeing her, then just get her something really small that is relative to something you've done or discussed, and tell her it made you think of her and that you had to get it.
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