Renee65 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 OK. My guy and I broke up for a couple months. Next think I found out he had a g/f. I talked to him about it. He said that relationship was on the rocks and he didn't know if it would last much longer. He kept to this story on and on and so I finally met him as a friend. Only thing feelings took over and we made love. He promised this other woman would be gone in a month and stupid me believed him. Now here it is past all the holidays and he is still with her and me both. He says he loves us both and don't want to choose. I asked him to choose and he said he couldn't. Now I found out her house and drove by and sure enough his car was parked there. He spent the night with her. He only wants to spend days with me and wants me to leave before dark. LOL When I say his car in her yard it's like he drove the stake thru my heart. IT HURT!!! I want to go to her house next Sat. when I know he is at work and talk to her. She is an innocent in all this as she does not know about me. I want to tell her the truth and what he told me about them. I believe this will make him decide then. She may not want anything to do with him then again she may not care. I still think she has a right to know. I've give up on him but I don't want to see him ruin her life. He and I go way back and have history. She deserves the truth. NOW let me hear what you got to say.
Lillyfree Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 i he can't decide, then you decide for him. tell him that being 'daytime only' girlfriend isn't working for you and you want a relationship with a man who wants only you, at any time of day. by all means, tell the other girl what's going on. but don't do it because you're hoping she'll kick him to the kerb and then the two of you can ride off into the sunset - you deserve better than him. 2
missa203322 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Tell the other woman and leave him. Don't mess with this fool any longer. I know you have feelings for him but you will NEVER be able to forgive him for this and you can never be sure you have all his heart because if he can share his heart between the two of you and hurt you like this then he really doesn't love you.
obladi Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 i was just like ur guy so I know tell her is ur only chance to make him change. and tell her all 3 of you will come out better after awhile we did. Yea I was a dck but know what we guys can be that way lol tell her.
canuckprincess Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 OK. My guy and I broke up for a couple months. Next think I found out he had a g/f. I talked to him about it. He said that relationship was on the rocks and he didn't know if it would last much longer. He kept to this story on and on and so I finally met him as a friend. Only thing feelings took over and we made love. He promised this other woman would be gone in a month and stupid me believed him. Now here it is past all the holidays and he is still with her and me both. He says he loves us both and don't want to choose. I asked him to choose and he said he couldn't. Now I found out her house and drove by and sure enough his car was parked there. He spent the night with her. He only wants to spend days with me and wants me to leave before dark. LOL When I say his car in her yard it's like he drove the stake thru my heart. IT HURT!!! I want to go to her house next Sat. when I know he is at work and talk to her. She is an innocent in all this as she does not know about me. I want to tell her the truth and what he told me about them. I believe this will make him decide then. She may not want anything to do with him then again she may not care. I still think she has a right to know. I've give up on him but I don't want to see him ruin her life. He and I go way back and have history. She deserves the truth. NOW let me hear what you got to say. Are you sure she doesn't know about you? You'd be shocked how many woman know their husbands or boyfriends have a squeeze on the side and still stay. Maybe they have an open relationship, or he could want you or her to decide. I think it would be hilarious if you talked to her and you both dumped his sorry a$$.
canuckprincess Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Renee, I heard a song on the radio today and it got me thinking of your situation which I can totally relate to it was two black Cadillacs by Carrie underwood. You should listen to it.
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