pinkttulips Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I have been facebook friends with a guy that I went to high school (long ago) for a couple yrs now, we haven't corresponded to much, all of us from high school have been adding each other. I was very shy when we were in school and had a big crush on him back then, but back then we never talked (due to shyness). I remember him being just a little shy back then too (this was 30 yrs ago). Anyways, he works where I do now, but in a different dept. We talk in passing for a min or 2, because that is all we have time for (our breaks are different times). So on Christmas eve, I just sent him a quick email via fb, wishing him a Merry Christmas and said that since we don't have time to really visit at work that we should go have coffee or get a drink or something. He read it (according to fb), but didn't reply back. (just a bit of info also: I haven's asked, but pretty sure he went thru a divorce some time in 2012, because he no longer lists on his profile that he is married and no longer wears a ring). Anyways, now at work, I find him coming downstairs more often when I am at break or lunch to get a soda out of the machine, etc... and looking at me a little more and saying something real quick, then goes back up to his desk, but he hasn't mentioned anything about my email and us meeting somewhere. So, not sure what to take of this. His actions are just a little bit different, but yet he hasn't said anything. Why hasn't he responded? Did I do the right thing? How do you think he took my email? Maybe he is still married, just not wearing his ring and doens't want to list on his fb profile that he is married, like it was before?
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