Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 K so, I posted my story on here already but tonight my ex messaged after a month of no contact. He was telling me to get over him and that it wasn't really love because he thought my msn statuses were about him even when they had nothing to do with him. He then started making fun of how ugly and fat I was (I'm a pretty small girl..) and how he was ashamed that he dated me because I was fat, when the reason I caught his eye was because I was so "beautiful" well he told my friend that when we first met lol. So I answered being mature about it, and he saying how it wasn't cool that I'm still alive and whatnot, and that any guy who dates me next will be horrified by the sight of my body. Like the more I seemed not to care, the more meaner his comments got, so then I just started sending one word answers so he'd stop talking to me... He said he's moved on and he knows that I'm over him, like ya it bugs me because it was hurtful but I really don't care what he thinks of me.. So why do you think he is doing this? All of of the blue. I stopped talking to him immediate after our break up and never looked back so what's the point in attacking me over nothing. Help please? I want an opinion because for some reason, it is really bothering me, not what he said, but trying to figure what, or some reasons for guys/maybe even girls to do this.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Wow what a female dog he is. Well that's easier for you to get over him. What makes him think he can just walk all over people. I hope your okay <3 his the ugly one.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 I know hey! I was definitely not expecting that. What a childish thing to do. I'm okay thank you <3 I hope you are feeling better.
NoMoreJerks Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 K so, I posted my story on here already but tonight my ex messaged after a month of no contact. He was telling me to get over him and that it wasn't really love because he thought my msn statuses were about him even when they had nothing to do with him. He then started making fun of how ugly and fat I was (I'm a pretty small girl..) and how he was ashamed that he dated me because I was fat, when the reason I caught his eye was because I was so "beautiful" well he told my friend that when we first met lol. So I answered being mature about it, and he saying how it wasn't cool that I'm still alive and whatnot, and that any guy who dates me next will be horrified by the sight of my body. Like the more I seemed not to care, the more meaner his comments got, so then I just started sending one word answers so he'd stop talking to me... He said he's moved on and he knows that I'm over him, like ya it bugs me because it was hurtful but I really don't care what he thinks of me.. So why do you think he is doing this? All of of the blue. I stopped talking to him immediate after our break up and never looked back so what's the point in attacking me over nothing. Help please? I want an opinion because for some reason, it is really bothering me, not what he said, but trying to figure what, or some reasons for guys/maybe even girls to do this. Hi hon, ignore this jerk! What an utter waste of space!!! You said it yourself: the more you showed you didn't care, the meaner his comments got; he has issues, and should grow the f*ck up. But some guys never do. But on the bright side, it is no longer your problem, right? Plus, why let a guy who is so mean in the first place, make you doubt yourself??
stevie_23 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 OMG! This is ridiculous behaviour on his part! How anyone can actually say these sorts of things and not be embarrassed by themselves is just beyond me.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 Hi yeah it was pretty harsh what he was saying but it definitely didn't hurt me. Yes not my problem anymore. Like why not spend time with your new girlfriend and leave your old one be... That would be an idea. He's been trying to get a reaction out of me for weeks now but I guess he finally had to talk to me himself lol what a loser. What's the point.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 I know right. He use to be the sweetest guy I knew and now he's a huge heartless jerk.. Funny how people change, or at least show their true colours. Like leave me alone if you are moved on and hate me.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 I'm 18, he's 19. I know, very immature age.
kandygurl22 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Wow. Just WOW. What an incredibly juvenile ASS. Don't let his comments offend you! They are desperate words of a loser - he has to resort to that bull to try to get a reaction of you! The best way to get back at him is to not give him the reaction that he is after. He probably texted you after that long because HE is the one who still cares and isn't totally over it and probably felt deflated when you sounded like you didn't care and lashed out at you like a total idiot. If you are over someone and you don't like them then you'd remain indifferent to whatever they were doing, you don't waste time insulting someone you don't care about. Delete him off FB and don't even give him the pleasure of a response if he ever hits you up again! What a dick.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 Yup! It hasn't been bugging me but it was still harsh. I don't know why he's doing it but I doubt he still cares. I tried hard not to talk to him and after awhile, I didn't even want to, when I thought I'd never hear from him again, he talks to me.. Like I admit I still missed him, but after our "talk" today, screw that. I'm done missing someone who treats me like that after everything I've done for him. Funny thing is, he doesn't even have Facebook, probably told my friends to snoop.
Sugarkane Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Wow didn't his parents ever teach him any manners? This guy is garbage. Why is this Ahole still alive? Delete this jerk out of existence! You dodged a massive bullet!
Sugarkane Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I've had a early 20s ex do this to me also. It felt fantastic to delete the liar and cheater from my life. Now he's someone else's problem.
flitzanu Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 hopefully you've now blocked all contact from this awesome male specimen.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 Yeah after everything I did for him, for all the times I was there when nobody else was, this is how I get repaid, awesome. Like I really didn't deserve this.. But I guess it was "all my fault", and now he's rubbing in my face that he loves his new girlfriend.. They have known each other for less than two weeks. How sad. Yes I have deleted him, thank god he hasn't had Facebook for two years. Some people just need to grow up, and have a ****ing heart. I think everything is bothering him more than it is bothering me so that's good right? 1
TrueAwareness Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I dont want to be mean or anything, but your EX is a complete loser piece of ~€~#. And you shouldnt even waste time typing about such vermin. You are so much better off trust me!
iouaname Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I think everything is bothering him more than it is bothering me so that's good right? It certainly sounds like it. Clearly he isn't as over it or over you as he likes to pretend, otherwise he wouldn't have thrown such an immature tantrum. What you should do now? Block him from your life, and then breathe a huge sigh of relief that you dodged this bullet.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 Yup, I am actually so relieved now to have him out of my life. Like he's moved on, what was the point of attacking me like that and I can guarantee he will do it again, he even bothers me friends talking nonstop about me, like WHO CARES, it's all over and done with. Told me to get over him when it's obvious that I have, saying my statuses were relating back to him when they mostly rap song lyrics.. Uh huh.. My friends all think he's doing it because he's not over me yet but I'm having a hard time believing it. I still have those moments where I miss our time together which is sooo dumb after everything he's put me through. 1
na49 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 It's okay to miss the good times. We all do. You definitely are more over than him and are in a much better position than he is. He's not over you. People who are over other's don't attack their friends and talk crap about them. Block him on facebook though. Block him anywhere you can really if you don't want to hear from him again. You don't need to tell him you're going to be doing this by the way. Just do it.
Samilia Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 K so, I posted my story on here already but tonight my ex messaged after a month of no contact. He was telling me to get over him and that it wasn't really love because he thought my msn statuses were about him even when they had nothing to do with him. He then started making fun of how ugly and fat I was (I'm a pretty small girl..) and how he was ashamed that he dated me because I was fat, when the reason I caught his eye was because I was so "beautiful" well he told my friend that when we first met lol. So I answered being mature about it, and he saying how it wasn't cool that I'm still alive and whatnot, and that any guy who dates me next will be horrified by the sight of my body. Like the more I seemed not to care, the more meaner his comments got, so then I just started sending one word answers so he'd stop talking to me... He said he's moved on and he knows that I'm over him, like ya it bugs me because it was hurtful but I really don't care what he thinks of me.. So why do you think he is doing this? All of of the blue. I stopped talking to him immediate after our break up and never looked back so what's the point in attacking me over nothing. Help please? I want an opinion because for some reason, it is really bothering me, not what he said, but trying to figure what, or some reasons for guys/maybe even girls to do this. Because.. he's a dickbag, immature, his ego is hurt and he wants to get back at you.. little kids call other kids "fat" like it's the ultimate insult.. what else.. well just google synonyms of douchebag.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 I don't know, do you really think he's not over me because he's acting this way? I really feel bad for his girlfriend, I don't think he's even mentally stable enough right now to even have one. Yeah he hasn't had Facebook for two years, and I already deleted him from my phone and soon on msn when I get my laptop back (i've been using my phone ) Yeah but I really don't understand why he's trying to get back at me, he broke up with me, but yes, he is all those things, and it doesn't bother me if he calls me fat because I'm half the size of him (I'm a petit Asian and he's a buff white guy)
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Tell this cheap mfer to go jump off a bridge into a nice cold lake and drown to death! What a horrible piece of ****. This pisses me off!! Such undeserving pile of ****. Some people shouldn't be allowed to live in this world... He is one of them. If I was up there I'd beat his ass. No one should tell no one that.. 4
cavalier99 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Meh..I just say just pity the poor guy. Obviously has some emotional problems and is just super immature for his age. No big deal. In a strange way he did you a favor acting this way. Now your over him...that is something to be grateful for He will probably apologise to you in a couple years. I'm sure deep down he feels super guilty and doesn't have the emotional tool set to deal with it.
Author Loveandpeace14 Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 Yeah I don't know what's wrong with him but I'm grateful to be over him. I honestly didn't deserve anything he had put me through, I was so good to him and I wasn't even needy/clingy but independent. It's been going on since October and he should be done by now, we broke up for good a month ago and he just won't leave it. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 Yeah I don't know what's wrong with him but I'm grateful to be over him. I honestly didn't deserve anything he had put me through, I was so good to him and I wasn't even needy/clingy but independent. It's been going on since October and he should be done by now, we broke up for good a month ago and he just won't leave it. Good. A beautiful girl, shouldn't be with such an ugly person.
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