Allumere Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 ..just found out ex got engaged. Needless to say it feels pretty lousey. Not surprised at all but still hurts as 8 months ago that was "our" plan..to get engaged around now. No words.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 So sorry. It must be heart breaking. I wouldn't know how to deal with myself if that was the case. But your strong. Doesn't matter what the plan was. It matters what your plan now IS. You don't know if that is going to last. They might not even get married. It was too fast
thekarmacist Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 i'm sorry...that news would startle and disorient anyone, BUT.. doesn't it tell you something important about your ex? such superficial feelings to make yet another serious commitment so soon after the end of a different relationship.. that person's superficial character isn't going to change. and the fact that they're engaged DOESN'T mean they're actually going to marry. take a deep breath and do your best to keep the focus on you, where it will do the most good. this person is a schmuck, and you won't be the last person to be disappointed by his actions.
Author Allumere Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 So he sent me an email today to tell me about his engagement. We haven't spoken or had contact since October. He wanted me to know before I heard thru the grapevine....too late. GRRRR....told me how fond he is of me and the great memories he has of me. Says we both need to move on and not live in the past...she is the girl for him...I'll meet someone great.... yeah, well, **** you Nancy
LostOne1 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 So he sent me an email today to tell me about his engagement. We haven't spoken or had contact since October. He wanted me to know before I heard thru the grapevine....too late. GRRRR....told me how fond he is of me and the great memories he has of me. Says we both need to move on and not live in the past...she is the girl for him...I'll meet someone great.... yeah, well, **** you Nancy To me that's an assole LOL Why does he need to tell you anyways. If he's moved on he shouldn't need to put it in your face. Well take it as you got SAVED and some poor girl is stuck with him now.
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