charlietheginger Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Great questions! Haven't been together long, 3 months. That being said, we have spent every night together other than 1 at his place. We are not moving into a new place. My lease is up and since I spend every night at his place anyways [we technically already live together I guess, I just pay rent for a place I don't use.] We both make crap money [yay for full time students!] and already purchase groceries together and what not. Very VERY strong relationship so far, and we will be moving in together at the end of March! Totally get the whole power thing with it being "his" place still after I move in. Not sure how it will pan out, but things right now are already going well so I have high hopes. It is definitely something I will keep in mind. Things are still under discussion though so any ideas as to things I should bring up to him would be great to hear! basically your both young and broke. Living together Would help take financial stress off your shoulders. Splitting an apartment could save you 300 400 bucks Each plus you could be on his car insurance being he is 31 Prob get a better rate. If you guys cook your own food ,rent movies and live on A budget financially it makes sense. But the downside is living with someone becuase its Cheaper if you dont get along
Author miss_jaclynrae Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 basically your both young and broke. Living together Would help take financial stress off your shoulders. Splitting an apartment could save you 300 400 bucks Each plus you could be on his car insurance being he is 31 Prob get a better rate. If you guys cook your own food ,rent movies and live on A budget financially it makes sense. But the downside is living with someone becuase its Cheaper if you dont get along ROFL. I have my own car insurance so I am ok there There are a lot of pros to the situation if things go WELL. We already live on a budget, cook every night together, and generally have a quiet lifestyle. Here is to hoping it goes well! If not, ill just go back to where i am now. In my own apartment.
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I hate to repeat myself because I know you all will think I am "fantasizing" but we literally spend EVERY day together. As in: I pick up and wash his dirty underwear, He brushes his teeth while I pop my pimples, We go to work/school and then every other moment is spent together, Cooking, cleaning, shopping, gym.... We already kind of dove right into it. The rush is due to 2 things really, convenience since I am now paying for an apartment I am never at, and also because we already pretty much live together. That sound super gross sorry.. no offense.. but yeah kinda gross
Author miss_jaclynrae Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 That sound super gross sorry.. no offense.. but yeah kinda gross It is totally gross, but totally real. I've been married... when you spend day in and day out with someone, things like this happen!
kaylan Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 The girl I was seeing last month would pee on the toilet naked while I brushed my teeth. No biggie
KungFuJoe Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 My wife moved in with me real quick. Maybe two months. Would have been sooner but I had a roommate up until that time. He moved out and she was in a few days later.
Pyro Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 I agree with those who say that it is too soon. Three months is rushing it so you are taking a risk with your decision, but if it ends up working out then good for you.
MrCastle Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 The girl I was seeing last month would pee on the toilet naked while I brushed my teeth. No biggie I am so not ready for a relationship. It's laughable how far removed I am from what you just said being my reality.
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