raleighr Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 This guy I dated for awhile and we stopped seeing each other...I am trying to date him again but hes been talking to this girl. I think I should just give up because shes hotter than me and guys are shallow and care about looks FIRST. (even if they are a "nice guy" like he is...theyre all the same!). Theyve been talking for awhile and he hasnt been talking as much to me I got pics off of her Twitter and Photobucket...should I be worried? What should I do? Flickr: raleigh888's Photostream
Keenly Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 It's sounding like while you are claiming all men are shallow, you are in fact the shallow one. You are saying you can't compete with her because of looks, are you devoid of personality ? Go take him. 1
sid3 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Toss him to the curb and find a guy that puts you first.
kiss_andmakeup Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Your username and the album name match. Oops. 1
stillafool Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 We would have to see a picture of you as well to compare. You may think you are not as hot as she is and our opinions may differ. I can tell you that an emotional connection is more important in maintaining a relationship than how one looks. I have been pursued by men that have been drop dead gorgeous and still I longed to be with an ex who someone in my family said looked like a bumble bee.
pinkttulips Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I don't think all guys are shallow. But, the pics she is posting of herself, clearly will show any guy that he will not have to work very hard to get some action. If he goes for her, then this is all he's looking for (sex) and you are better off finding someone who is looking for the same thing as you are.
PogoStick Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Hell ya win him back. Send me that girl's number and I'll keep her occupied. She's 18+ right?
Author raleighr Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 Your username and the album name match. Oops. Yeah I took her pictures and posted it. Prob not safe to directly post her link to this forum...alot of creepy old men here. I am not ugly but I wouldnt say I am hot. And I disagree, an average looking guy with a great personality will get turned down by some females but many will give him a chance. Few men would give an average looking girl with a decent personality a chance if a hotter one is nearby. Doesnt happen.
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