jayy23 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 so.. I have my ex girlfriends brother as a friend on Facebook and today I went on and seen loadza pics on my feed that he had put up the pics were of him and his family and obv my ex was in alot of them. every single pic she is in she has the biggest smile on her face and is obviously haviing a good time... well I started to feel kinda angry at that fact she looks so happy but at the same time im glad shes happy. but seeing them pics have put me in weird mood all day today kinda doin my head in. im not sure if I should just delete her brother from my Facebook so I dont see any pics he myt put up but at the same time it lets me know how shes doing which otherwise I wouldnt know because she doesnt want to talk to me anymore. should I even care about how shes doing?.. .she clearly doesnt care about how im doing.
Yamcha Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Yes, delete her brother from Facebook. I know that it's hard to not want to check up on her, but it's only gonna cause pain. It's screwing with your head right now, and it's not gonna stop immediately if you break all contact, but that's the only way to heal from the breakup.
Samilia Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Are you guys friends? As in, do you hang out? If the answer is no then yes, delete him 1
Author jayy23 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 Are you guys friends? As in, do you hang out? If the answer is no then yes, delete him nah I havent seen him in ages since my ex left me I dont even really talk to him on Facebook.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 Depends. If he was your friend before and you consider him a close friend, keep him. If not, delete.
Author jayy23 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 since he put the pics up he shared a video that she must have put on her page. its a video of her in Egypt on a field trip with uni... I watched it shes not in it for long but seeing her laughing and smiling just reminds me how much I miss her. I really need to delete him from Facebook. this shouldnt even be bothering me tho its been 10months since she left.
Author jayy23 Posted January 21, 2013 Author Posted January 21, 2013 Depends. If he was your friend before and you consider him a close friend, keep him. If not, delete. hes the reason I met her in the first place we worked together for years then he got her a summer job at the same place. we hung out sometimes even before I met his sister but we havent spoke since she left me. he works at another place now aswell.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 hes the reason I met her in the first place we worked together for years then he got her a summer job at the same place. we hung out sometimes even before I met his sister but we havent spoke since she left me. he works at another place now aswell. My best friend is the brother-in-law of my ex and was the one that encouraged her to seek me out when we first started seeing each other. There's no way in hell that I would delete him because her and I died. I'm closer to him than she is.
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