Author polo girl Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 i seriously do want to tell him how pathetic he is.. this guy needs constant ego boosts and i want to drag him down a peg or two.. i get that he isn't interested. i don't get that he didn't have the manners or basic courtesy to text back and at least make something up.. i want him to know that he is an arse.. he has had one girlfriend before and he believes that she will never find someone as wonderful as him. if, and this is a BIG if, i contact him, it will only be after he texts me. if i say nothing, he will think that i'm devastated. i want him to know that i don't care and that my life is just fine. how do i say that without coming across as pathetic.
Author polo girl Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 slightly harsh calling me a dumb ass! naive yes, trusting yes, but not stupid.. what worries me is that i'll end up bitter and twisted if i believe that all men are only after sex.. there must be some decent guys out there!
umirano Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Who loses his phone, LOL. You're wasting your time. If anything, the ball is in his court. He should check up on you and you then could let him know how little you think of his behavior. Then you'd give him two weeks to not **** up a single time, and then you could consider dating him again.
umirano Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 there must be some decent guys out there! Yes, for decent girls. Being very petty about being blown off for a change (by a rude mofo even), does not make you very attractive. Get over yourself. Seriously, what is it that makes people want to educate others so much? You and him don't click outside vacation mode. Big whoop. Move on and find someone who you click with on a regular base.
Mtlgrrl Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 I think you should marry him & have his babies. Will you listen to that? I'm sorry but why are you even asking us since you obviously know that you will respond to him. The guy treats you like ***** and you're like begging for more, so more you shall have.
Green Light Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 there must be some decent guys out there! There are, but you don't want them...
FitChick Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Tell him to stop contacting you because you don't want to upset your new boyfriend. Wish him good luck with all future endeavors. Then change your phone number.
Author polo girl Posted January 28, 2013 Author Posted January 28, 2013 ugh i went on a date last night and saw him - wasn't stalking as technically it was over 100 miles away from where he lives! he and his friends were superbly drunk and behaving like true desperadoes. i was embarrassed that i even liked him he gave me the dirtiest of looks and so did his friends. i didn't tell the guy that i was with who he was. didn't feel that i needed to humiliate myself even further!
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