Kevin Q Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 (edited) My ex broke up with me a month ago because she said she didnt want a boyfriend, want to get hurt, or cheated on which i wont do and have told her. So a week ago we had a FFA thing all day and at the last half we were really talking to each other. So when i got home she sends me a text asking if i wanna hang out. So i went over and i helped her with her homework but throughout the time we got sidetracked and was talking a lot, somethings seemed personal what she was telling me. She told me that guys were trying to flirt with her the whole time at the FFA thing but she didnt back and she told me she was only flirting with me. She put her head on shoulder cause she was tired too. When i left i gave her a hung. When i got home she texted me make it home ok and she said im really happy u came there. I said it was nice seeing u again and said good i did too. I told her i was going to rub her belly cause she didnt feel good but i said it would of been weird. She said hmm never know. So everytime i see her in the hallway she looks at me funny in a friendly, flirty way. When we text she flirts too but not all the time but i good amount. I asked her if she wanted to hang out this week but she was busy with her job which last week when we hung out she was off. Then one of my girl friends said to me in class that her and my ex were talking about me and my friend said im a really sweat guy and why ex agreed so my friend asked my we broke up and she said she saw me more as a friend. These past 5 days me and my ex have been texting every day and if i dont text her she will text me first and she has been every day. When she was at work yesterday she snapchatted me and we sent a few back and forth but i forgot she sent me one so 7 hours later she snapchatted me again said i didnt send one back with a puppy dog face. i texted her im really sorry i thought i sent one back which i thought i did and she said you should be and i said i feel bad and she said good so i said atleast u didnt say K (which i hate and she sends it sometimes to be funny and mess with me) and she said haha I know i was to into the relationship. So whats going on here? Does she want to take things slow or not? Edited January 20, 2013 by Kevin Q
fungusamungus Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 It sounds like she just wants to be friends. You are her doormat, which is not really attractive to any girl. You sound like a nice guy, so she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but she doesn't sound attracted to you, and you aren't doing anything to make her more attracted to you, because you continue to revolve around her. Well-adjusted, non-narcissistic women do not like to date men who revolve around them. Romantic relationships come with obligations and expectations and if you revolve around them, they feel pressured and suffocated. This is why guys get dropped back down to the "just friends" category. Because then you can continue to be the way you are without emotional obligation from her end. She just wants to be friends, this does not sound like a situation where she is interested in dating you again.
OlyliftJayVee Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 When a girl wants a guy back back...she will tell you. It seems like she is just keeping you around bc she knowsmshe will get attention from u. Why domyou want to be with a girl who told you she didnt want to be with you? It seems like she has alot of insecurities.
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