The1Mechanic Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I've done a lot of reading here as a lurker, and have searched for similar threads, coming up mostly with short guys wishing they were taller, etc. What I haven't seen is guys of "average" height (I'm 5'10, with musuclar build) who for whatever reason, just find themselves very attracted to tall women. In my case, not just tall but shall I say "sturdy/thick". Not sloppy fat, but not skinny either. Here's an example of what I mean: A beautiful woman I'd also like to state that I'm not into any kind of "dominance" fantasy stuff. I don't want to be tied up, don't want her to kick my ass, or any other weirdness. I actaully just want a normal relationship... I have come to find this makes me a minority within a minority. Sexually, I'm just turned on by the idea that I can be as "rough" as I want and not worry about hurting her. (I'm a fairly dominant personality, but have a hard time being rough with regular-sized women because I hate the idea of hurting them physically.) I have been with some pretty good-sized women (6'+, 200lbs+) and also just love the way they feel in my hands... Broad back, thick butt, generous boobs, long legs, etc. I know some will be tempted to say "you're gay", because those are usually qualities that are associated with men (large size). Truth is, the idea of kissing/cuddling a man is beyond gross to me. (Not that I give a darn if that floats YOUR boat.) I once experimented just seeing another man naked and couldn't even get aroused. This is of importance to me because I'm somewhat considering ending a relationship that is excellent in so many ways, but I don't have a lot of attraction to her. I've now had several relationships like this that eventually ended, and somehow it keeps coming back to a "bigger/taller" girl is what I really want sexually. This also makes me feel supremely shallow. I guess I'm just wondering if there is even a single person who's ever had similar feelings. 1
Sarabi Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I am female and no, I don't think you're gay. Its your preference I suppose I like taller men...because I am 5'3" so its not really that hard, most men are taller So...you want to end a relationship because you want a taller girl, with big boobs (which will eventually sag), a broad back (don't we all get hunchbacked as we age?), a thick butt (I can't say anything here mine is not exactly small) and long legs...because you're more attracted to her sexually? What about her personality...intelligence etc. does it matter to you or is being pretty/sexy the only thing that matters in a relationship? Why do you want to limit yourself to tall women only? And how are you going to do it? Specifying your preferences on dating sites..? Do they have sites specific for what you're after(maybe that would be more useful for you)? I would say its better not to limit yourself-what if (worst case scenario) none of these tall women you desire so much want to date you? But its your life...you should feel free to explore your options in the way you want to 1
chex Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I am female and no, I don't think you're gay. Its your preference I suppose I like taller men...because I am 5'3" so its not really that hard, most men are taller So...you want to end a relationship because you want a taller girl, with big boobs (which will eventually sag), a broad back (don't we all get hunchbacked as we age?), a thick butt (I can't say anything here mine is not exactly small) and long legs...because you're more attracted to her sexually? What about her personality...intelligence etc. does it matter to you or is being pretty/sexy the only thing that matters in a relationship? Why do you want to limit yourself to tall women only? And how are you going to do it? Specifying your preferences on dating sites..? Do they have sites specific for what you're after(maybe that would be more useful for you)? I would say its better not to limit yourself-what if (worst case scenario) none of these tall women you desire so much want to date you? But its your life...you should feel free to explore your options in the way you want to Would you date a 5'4 or 5'3 guy? I mean, I'd say physical preference is actually pretty important in a relationship, if I'm honest I wouldn't date someone who's fat, or is a really disgusting kisser.
sweetkiwi Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I like tall guys. My favorite are the hairy ones with a belly. As tall as I can get. And I am barely 5ft. I dont think your gay. Or that anything is wrong with having a physical preference.
Author The1Mechanic Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 Here's the thing... I haven't limited myself to tall women only, and have had many good relationships. But I cannot deny that my head is turned whenever I see a shapely six-footer in store, etc. This makes me feel guilty, as if I am "cheating" on my partner. The relationship I'm in now is good, but perhaps not perfect. So I decided to create a POF ad where I did specifically mention a tall-women-only clause. Now I find myself texting/emailing a younger women who is 6'5", about 7 inches taller. I am constantly wondering if I'm not finding artificial fault in my current relationship. List of faults: Falls asleep practically anytime she sits down, hard to wake in the morning, was always overweight but is now piling it back on, poor housekeeping skills, etc. So part of me, which rises early, can stay up late, cares about my weight/fitness, likes a neat house; is afraid of just accepting behavior that I don't particularly like. I don't want to become that "fat, lazy couple that just watches TV and sleeps". I should also mention, my GF is 9 years younger than me... So what will she be like @ 40? So far this taller girl starts her job @ 6AM, likes to cook, shows quite a bit of ambition, etc. So it's not just about height, but. It makes me wonder if we clicked on all the "regular" mundane stuff of life, perhaps I could finally be super-attracted to someone physically as well?
sweetkiwi Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 P.S. My best friend is a big girl. Shall I give you her number Also some of us little girls like being hurt.
Sarabi Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Would you date a 5'4 or 5'3 guy? I mean, I'd say physical preference is actually pretty important in a relationship, if I'm honest I wouldn't date someone who's fat, or is a really disgusting kisser. I once had a couple of dates with someone the same height as me, not found any since
Author The1Mechanic Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 P.S. My best friend is a big girl. Shall I give you her number Also some of us little girls like being hurt. Yeah, I know. Plenty of bigger girls like it too. I've had women ask me to pull hair, etc. I just can't bring myself to do it (or at least enjoy it). It's not that I'm some kind of hippie either, lol.. I've hit guys square in the face and didn't feel bad for a second.
chex Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I once had a couple of dates with someone the same height as me, not found any since Ahh, oke. I know a lot of girls who are pretty averse to dating men who aren't towering over them. I find it a bit strange, but preference is weird. Yeah, I know. Plenty of bigger girls like it too. I've had women ask me to pull hair, etc. I just can't bring myself to do it (or at least enjoy it). It's not that I'm some kind of hippie either, lol.. I've hit guys square in the face and didn't feel bad for a second. Huh my present girlfriend actually bites me and pulls my hair, I really like it :3 She's shorter than me but I don't really care about height much. I'm attracted to people of different heights in slightly different ways, but equally attracted. 1
sweetkiwi Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Yeah, I know. Plenty of bigger girls like it too. I've had women ask me to pull hair, etc. I just can't bring myself to do it (or at least enjoy it). It's not that I'm some kind of hippie either, lol.. I've hit guys square in the face and didn't feel bad for a second. Ah. You're nice. Same story with my exs. They were scared to hurt me but I am a tough cookie. I have never been bit or spanked or had my hair pulled too hard. Ever. The only person who came even close was a hippie
Majoras Mask Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Well as a 5'10" woman that tips the scales at about 165 I can say this thread made me feel good. I always think men find taller women less delicate or too manly or whatever. When I see small petite girls I admit to being jealous sometimes because I think ALL men would prefer that over us tall girls so thanks for this post - if nothing else your giving us giants a bit of hope that we are not Amazons but kinda sexy too 1
Author The1Mechanic Posted January 25, 2013 Author Posted January 25, 2013 Well as a 5'10" woman that tips the scales at about 165 I can say this thread made me feel good. I always think men find taller women less delicate or too manly or whatever. When I see small petite girls I admit to being jealous sometimes because I think ALL men would prefer that over us tall girls so thanks for this post - if nothing else your giving us giants a bit of hope that we are not Amazons but kinda sexy too Lol, you're welcome. I really wish I knew why this seems so wired into me. I have no problems enjoying sex with more "typically" sized women, but when it comes to women I enjoy looking at (I'm very visual), I always imagine the tall, sturdy girl as the one with whom I'd most enjoy sex. Even just hearing her reveal something like "I'm embarassed to tell you my bra size, the number is over 40 inches and you'll think my back is huge" is a real turn on for me.
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