ginastar Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 if a man is dating a girl for a few years and then begins to treat her badly and walk all over her, most people would assume he will never marry her. But my question is, what if he is kinda trashy and wants to live a life where he can kinda do whatever he wants and not worry about what his GF wants...then will he marry the girl with no standards or does this type of man eventually grow up and want a woman with standards???
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 if a man is dating a girl for a few years and then begins to treat her badly and walk all over her, most people would assume he will never marry her. But my question is, what if he is kinda trashy and wants to live a life where he can kinda do whatever he wants and not worry about what his GF wants...then will he marry the girl with no standards or does this type of man eventually grow up and want a woman with standards??? People rarely change, if and after they have been set in one way for too long. There is that chance. But consider: he wants a trashy life, like that. That usually means he isn't about to change. Then consider change: it is insanely difficult to change ourselves. Most don't. Now none of this doesn't mean he cannot change. But it's less than likely.
Author ginastar Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 so you think he will marry the girl that allows him to do whatever like go on boys trip to vegas, etc???
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 so you think he will marry the girl that allows him to do whatever like go on boys trip to vegas, etc??? Anything is possible. Either way, would be a miserable relationship for said girl. He would run all over here. But why marry her? Honestly, he gets her either way. Gets to do what he wants, no worries. See, verse is always just as true.
somedude81 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I'm more concerned about why the girl would marry that guy.
Author ginastar Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 haha your prob right, he wont marry her since he gets her (and everything else) without marriage
Author ginastar Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 so is this why the "doormat" girl never gets the guy to marry him. not bc men want a girl with standards but bc they simply dont HAVE to marry them??
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 haha your prob right, he wont marry her since he gets her (and everything else) without marriage You know the saying. "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free."
Author ginastar Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 right so does that mean that men want to marry women who have standards? or is it just that those women Make them (in a way) marry them?
Author ginastar Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 what do you mean? you think the person i am referring to will never grow up and never want to marry anyone?
somedude81 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 what do you mean? you think the person i am referring to will never grow up and never want to marry anyone? Why do you care, when he treats her badly and walks all over her?
SpiralOut Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 He may marry her to keep up appearances. You know, if he wants to look like he is successful in life by getting himself a wife, maybe a kid, so he can show off to people how great he's doing.
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