Necromancer Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I went to work few hours ago the fast food place i work for and a ice cream shop share the same storage room. So as i was getting ready for work there walks a blonde girl in there to get some ice cream stuff i say "Hey, what's up?." she looks at me for one second then looks away and ignores me. I wasn't even hitting on her, just being friendly. After she saw my acne ridden face she got instantly dry and ignored me lol. Seriously, what would you do in a situation like that? Call her out on it?.
ThaWholigan Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 What would I do? Laugh at her and forget about it 3
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I would have told her (acting totally serious) that the acne was from a horrible skin disease contracted after not eating enough protein (especially steak and bacon cheeseburgers). That's what my dad did when some girl at the coffee shop asked him about his eye (it was all red and bloodshot after his surgery). That's usually a good way to go.
MrCastle Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Maybe she was having a bad day. Or she's a total bitch. Either or.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I went to work few hours ago the fast food place i work for and a ice cream shop share the same storage room. So as i was getting ready for work there walks a blonde girl in there to get some ice cream stuff i say "Hey, what's up?." she looks at me for one second then looks away and ignores me. I wasn't even hitting on her, just being friendly. After she saw my acne ridden face she got instantly dry and ignored me lol. Seriously, what would you do in a situation like that? Call her out on it?. Okay, first things first. Don't make assumptions that you turned her off in some way. I will never forget this one experience. I worked a Farmers Market and a costumer came up to buy something. I was talking to her and she didn' say anything to me. Then it became obvious she was def. I felt like a jack-ass. You never know what is going on in other people's lives that cause them to act certain ways. This girl could be a total douchebag. Or she could have a lot going on in her own life. You simply don't know. This is my second piece of advice to you, screw the people that don't say hello. I moved to a new state recently (I miss Jersey ) and it's kind of an affulent area. When I walk around, I say hello to everyone. Some say hello and some don't, some mumble like they can't be bothered, other people might not react quickly enough. I know there were times people said hello to me where I didn't react quickly enough. But I figure that if I am going to be walking by someone, it's kind of nice to acknowledge the presence of another human being instead of us pretending we don't see each other. i've had to practice it not bothering me though and remind myself that I can only control my behavior and I should act based on my code of ethics regardless of what other people do. And that what people do isn't always personal! It's easy to take those things personally. But usually people behave because of their own issues, not your issues. 1
Author Necromancer Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 Why is this in the dating section? You even say it was just being friendly. Also why did you make this thread? Some people are *******s who will ignore you, regardless of their gender. Would she ignore me if i would have had O'prys face?. I don't think so.
ThaWholigan Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Would she ignore me if i would have had O'prys face?. I don't think so. Why the f*ck are you so obsessed with this O'Pry dude?
Author Necromancer Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 Why the f*ck are you so obsessed with this O'Pry dude? I am Mirin his face hard, he can get almost any girl he wants. With O'prys face you can live 40 years in 2.
BehindBlueEyes Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 (edited) I totally understand how the OP feels. It makes you feel alone and strange when a chick does that to you. Every man wants a chick to smile at them and when they completely shun you, it makes you feel less manly. Either that girl has a corn cob up her ass or she is a pure B. It wouldn't of hurt her to say hello back. Edited January 20, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
BehindBlueEyes Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 When I was a teenager I did that to everyone. I have no doubt. I was one of the guys on the receiving ends of that sort of rudeness many many times. I praise any teenage girl who can be the better person and say hi to an ugly guy and make him feel good. That is a quality I look for in any crush I get.
charlietheginger Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Ive got the cure for acne. My face got alot of acne Major blackheads. Ive cured them all . Im serious if you want it gone try this. Epsom salt baths. Fill the tub with hot water. About half way pour In some epsom salt soak in the water. Take a 6 inch Piece of garden hose place in mouth as a snorkel. Pinch nose dip underwater. Soak 15min underwater Breathing through tube. The hot water will open your pores and the magnesium From the epsom salt will go into the pores neutralize The bacteria. Do this before bed. Next moring you will notice blackheads And acne puss being drawn to the surface. Gently press out the Blackheads and pimples that look like they are amost Comming out on their own. Leave face alone ones that are still Deep or sore dont touch. that night repeat again do this Over and over for about a week. As the old pimples work To the surface keep doing this. It took me about two weeks I now only hot bath once every few days. I learned this from a swedish model female that did This everynight. In north europe hot baths a few timea A week are common. In the usa we shower its much easier. now at first you will think the acne is getting worse But its not the epsom salt is just drawing the funk out. Use the bath really hot.
Mr_Flay Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I wasn't even hitting on her, just being friendly. She doesn't know that. She walked into a room, had a guy say something to her, looked at the guy, decided in half a second that she didn't like him, and made a decision to ignore him so as not to encourage him to flirt with her further or, Powers forbid, ask her out. Ignoring is what girls do when they're not attracted to someone. It happens much more in OLD, but it's here in real life as well. It takes much less effort and complications to ignore someone than to explain why you don't like them, which can provoke an angry retort too. The girl in question probably gets hit on a few times per day, and may thus be very practiced in that sort of thing. It's nothing personal. Well, it kind of is, but nothing you should get upset about. Maybe she found you attractive, but has a boyfriend and is against flirting with other people when in a relationship. Who knows. The important thing is not to call her out on it, as you'll just come off as needy and creepy. She doesn't know you, so she doesn't owe you anything except etiquette, but that's her failure and shortcoming. Were she your acquaintance, things would be different.
Bito Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 And the problem is what exactly? She said you a favor by letting you know she's a bitch. Next please.
irc333 Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I recall one time, I was at a bookstore ordering from a "Barista" and I was waiting in front of the counter for my coffee, an attractive woman walks up and then places her order. The place was rather quiet, and then she was done, she was standing next to me in this awkward silence, both of us waiting on our coffees. I heard her order the Pumpkin Spice coffee. I said to her, "I just ordered the Pumpkin Spice, is it any good, I never had it" (Truth, I didn't have Pumpkin Spice at the time.) She looks at me, with a rather vacant look and with a voice of no inflection. "It's good." And I say, "Okay, I was just wondering, because I have never had it before." She looks back up at front, as if she was just reading the menu and goes, "Yeah." Totally unengaging in converstaion, lacking in social graces obviously, but that wast he most awkard conversation I had with a woman I just met Sometimes I wonder if they're thinking, "You are kidding, this guy is trying to pick me up at a coffee shop? Ha!" LOL Okay, first things first. Don't make assumptions that you turned her off in some way. I will never forget this one experience. I worked a Farmers Market and a costumer came up to buy something. I was talking to her and she didn' say anything to me. Then it became obvious she was def. I felt like a jack-ass. You never know what is going on in other people's lives that cause them to act certain ways. This girl could be a total douchebag. Or she could have a lot going on in her own life. You simply don't know. This is my second piece of advice to you, screw the people that don't say hello. I moved to a new state recently (I miss Jersey ) and it's kind of an affulent area. When I walk around, I say hello to everyone. Some say hello and some don't, some mumble like they can't be bothered, other people might not react quickly enough. I know there were times people said hello to me where I didn't react quickly enough. But I figure that if I am going to be walking by someone, it's kind of nice to acknowledge the presence of another human being instead of us pretending we don't see each other. i've had to practice it not bothering me though and remind myself that I can only control my behavior and I should act based on my code of ethics regardless of what other people do. And that what people do isn't always personal! It's easy to take those things personally. But usually people behave because of their own issues, not your issues.
Bristolius Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Okay, first things first. Don't make assumptions that you turned her off in some way. I will never forget this one experience. I worked a Farmers Market and a costumer came up to buy something. I was talking to her and she didn' say anything to me. Then it became obvious she was def. I felt like a jack-ass. You never know what is going on in other people's lives that cause them to act certain ways. This girl could be a total douchebag. Or she could have a lot going on in her own life. You simply don't know. This is my second piece of advice to you, screw the people that don't say hello. I moved to a new state recently (I miss Jersey ) and it's kind of an affulent area. When I walk around, I say hello to everyone. Some say hello and some don't, some mumble like they can't be bothered, other people might not react quickly enough. I know there were times people said hello to me where I didn't react quickly enough. But I figure that if I am going to be walking by someone, it's kind of nice to acknowledge the presence of another human being instead of us pretending we don't see each other. i've had to practice it not bothering me though and remind myself that I can only control my behavior and I should act based on my code of ethics regardless of what other people do. And that what people do isn't always personal! It's easy to take those things personally. But usually people behave because of their own issues, not your issues. Once, waiting in line at the grocery store, I noticed the checkout girl scowling as she worked. For some reason that day I was fed up with the barely repressed hostility that seems common at checkout counters. When she started ringing me up I said, "having a bad day?" She missed my snark and started telling me all about her toothache. 1
TheZebra Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I recall one time, I was at a bookstore ordering from a "Barista" and I was waiting in front of the counter for my coffee, an attractive woman walks up and then places her order. The place was rather quiet, and then she was done, she was standing next to me in this awkward silence, both of us waiting on our coffees. I heard her order the Pumpkin Spice coffee. I said to her, "I just ordered the Pumpkin Spice, is it any good, I never had it" (Truth, I didn't have Pumpkin Spice at the time.) She looks at me, with a rather vacant look and with a voice of no inflection. "It's good." And I say, "Okay, I was just wondering, because I have never had it before." She looks back up at front, as if she was just reading the menu and goes, "Yeah." Totally unengaging in converstaion, lacking in social graces obviously, but that wast he most awkard conversation I had with a woman I just met Sometimes I wonder if they're thinking, "You are kidding, this guy is trying to pick me up at a coffee shop? Ha!" LOL That's actually exactly what we're thinking, yes. I had almost the same scenario happen to me at a Burger King of all places. I dunno what you look like, but the guy that was talking to me looked like and spoke like he could trap me in a hole in his house, asking me to put lotion on my skin while he fashioned himself a woman suit out of the women he's killed (bonus points for anyone who gets this reference). Lets just say I never ate my whopper so quickly in my life.
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I went to work few hours ago the fast food place i work for and a ice cream shop share the same storage room. So as i was getting ready for work there walks a blonde girl in there to get some ice cream stuff i say "Hey, what's up?." she looks at me for one second then looks away and ignores me. I wasn't even hitting on her, just being friendly. After she saw my acne ridden face she got instantly dry and ignored me lol. Seriously, what would you do in a situation like that? Call her out on it?. Some women are bitches. Hardcore bitches. Some of the things women have said to me over the years AND I quote: "If wouldn't have talked to you back when I was in high school." When discussing a group of girls in my college dorm with another girl, "Those girls actually talk to you?" Yes, that was when I was younger, but don't think that people change much. As they get older, they might 'lower' themselves to your level to talk to you, but don't think they'll give you any respect. I sniff out snobby, hi-fi women like a bloodhound and steer clear and so should you. It's a skill you should become good at. Trust me. It's hard enough to succeed with NICE women!
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