Evolving Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 (edited) My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago in the middle of an argument. We have been together for 11 months and were planning a one year anniversary dinner. He said he thought I should pay for dinner because this is 2013. I found that odd and surprising because I cook for him so his laundry at time and even help him clean his apartment. I told him its not that I can't pay for dinner or won't ever but this is what I wanted from him. He then turned the argument into a money issue and then said he no longer wants to be in a relationship with someone he has to argue about money. He is doing well financially as he reminds me all the time how he more financially stable than I am confused. When we spoke about dinner before he told me to just set the date. its appears now that the date is set its a problem. I don't ask him for anything because I work and Pay my own bills I confused as to why he is so angry and no longer wants the relationship. Please give me some feed back Edited January 19, 2013 by Evolving
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 He sounds immature and it doesn't sound like he loves you as you need be. The fact that he is financially stable and asks that you pay for a dinner, when you do everything else, is not right. Not that a woman cant pay sometimes. But it sounds like you do the rest. But to breakup over something like this, shows immaturity on his part. He is not ltr status. You did nothing wrong. He is just immature baby who didn't get his way.
Samilia Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago in the middle of an argument. We have been together for 11 months and were planning a one year anniversary dinner. He said he thought I should pay for dinner because this is 2013. I found that odd and surprising because I cook for him so his laundry at time and even help him clean his apartment. I told him its not that I can't pay for dinner or won't ever but this is what I wanted from him. He then turned the argument into a money issue and then said he no longer wants to be in a relationship with someone he has to argue about money. He is doing well financially as he reminds me all the time how he more financially stable than I am confused. When we spoke about dinner before he told me to just set the date. its appears now that the date is set its a problem. I don't ask him for anything because I work and Pay my own bills I confused as to why he is so angry and no longer wants the relationship. Please give me some feed back I dated a guy like that. Financially wealthier than me but cheap as hell. I don't mind going 50/50 on things like going out for a bite, movies, etc..since I'm not his responsibility and the relationship was young. He then made a vacation a living hell where he wouldn't even spend 2 bucks on a drink. In bed he was the same way, cheap and demanding. I dumped him promptly. Do the same.
Amelie1980 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I think the dinner was an excuse to break up... its so petty
Author Evolving Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 Thank you guys for your feed back. I agree with each of you.
destroyed4sho Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 Somebody told me a long time ago, which has Never failed to be true: If he is cheap with his money, he is cheap with his heart!! Get rid of him, you will be saving yourself a lot of heartache in the longrun
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