Haydn_20 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 My girlfriend of nearly 2 years dumped me last week, she cheated on me, and now is with the guy she cheated on me with, I'm 20 she is 18. She was my first love and i lost my virginity to her . During the relationship she cheated on me at least 5 times, she always came back to me, I was stupid enough to take her back each time, I liked the routine, the company, the sex. I felt like we had a future and I could save her from her cheating ways.I took pity on her.. Why do I feel so lonely, I feel like if she asked I would take her back in a heartbeat just like before, and this would happen all over again. I work 37 hours a week, he doesn't work at all. He and her have no money, I kept her afloat and supported, she told me she loved me and she would never hurt me. But she has. Someone please, tell me what to do, tell me to man the **** up or something
superb Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 My girlfriend of nearly 2 years dumped me last week, she cheated on me, and now is with the guy she cheated on me with, I'm 20 she is 18. She was my first love and i lost my virginity to her . During the relationship she cheated on me at least 5 times, she always came back to me, I was stupid enough to take her back each time, I liked the routine, the company, the sex. I felt like we had a future and I could save her from her cheating ways.I took pity on her.. Why do I feel so lonely, I feel like if she asked I would take her back in a heartbeat just like before, and this would happen all over again. I work 37 hours a week, he doesn't work at all. He and her have no money, I kept her afloat and supported, she told me she loved me and she would never hurt me. But she has. Someone please, tell me what to do, tell me to man the **** up or something You can't let someone have that kind of power over you. You are young, there are plenty of women out there that won't do you that way. Don't contact her...I know it's hard but you just can't. Go out with your friends! Live your life!
na49 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I'm afraid it doesn't matter how "nice" we are. How supportive we are. They are still capable of getting up and leaving us at any time. Makes you wonder if everything we did for them was in vain... Anyway, I'm 18 and like you, we're both young. We both have our whole lives in front of us, and yet we want our ex to be our life but they felt otherwise and aren't with us. It sucks, but if she cheated on you 5 times, you had to think she'd do it again. You don't want to believe it. My ex is a cheater and yet I would take her back in a heart beat. We trust them so much, we just want to give them another chance if they ask for it. They don't ask for it though, because they don't want another chance with us. They want a chance with someone else. She'll think it's pretty pathetic if you call her crying, so man up and post here as much as you need to. It really helps. 1
Ruby Slippers Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Find a girl who loves you back. You'll be much happier.
Author Haydn_20 Posted January 19, 2013 Author Posted January 19, 2013 Thanks :-). This thread has been a life saver, its nice to know I'm not alone, I keep trying to tell myself that all these emotions are just chemicals. Keep thinking logical , keep thinking logical
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