GB25 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 (edited) Hey everyone thanks for taking the time to read this..So my situation is a bit different then most on here as the following is not a LTR but rather a 2.5 month "fling" but more than just sex. Anyways, me and this girl were seeing each other for about 2 or 2.5 months lots of passion, sex, more physical intimacy then emotional as she is a VERY guarded person emotionally, like im talking the fort knox of emotions...she is extremely affectionate and physical but when it comes to emotions she is closed off. It was weird though because whenever I would back off and give her space she would reach out with a "i miss you" or " where you been baby" text. I admit I started to develop real feelings for this girl and was troubled by her mixed signals..all over me when im with her and very distant when i was away. So near the end she started getting a little distant , i could tell something wasnt right and as I pushed harder she went away..I took that as my que to back off and thats exactly what I did. So I didnt call her for about a a week or so and like clockwork around christmas i got a text " i miss you" like an idiot i replied back i miss you also i wanna see you..she said yes she wants to also and of course didnt hear from her again. We chatted briefly from x-mas up until now and I went complete NC for 3 weeks to just sort my emotions out..we never fought and there was never anyone to blame the "relationship" just ran its course. So 3 weeks later not a word has been spoken and last I kind of wrote her off and a thing of the past..no ill will no negative feelings just a girl that i had feelings for that didnt pan out for one reason or the next. The last night i get a text out of the blue from her... " Just so we're clear, there is no hard feelings. Time just took its toll" ..I was like WTF?? why write this 3 weeks after we havent spoken a word...is this a bait to see if i still have feelings or what?? I did not reply as i thought it was so bizarre..my friends said she was testing the waters..but I havent a clue.. Edited January 19, 2013 by GB25
HARPER100 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I don't see this as testing the water. More likely she felt bad about how things ended and wanted to clear her conscience. If she wanted to feel you out or get a reply she would have gone for something a bit more direct. Her text was just a statement of facts.
Leegh Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 It's hard to tell, it's a little unclear what she wrote. Possibly, ask her for more clarity, so that you will know exactly what she meant.
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