radishes Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I got out of a 4 year relationship about 4 months ago. I met this guy, he's about 7 years older, and he told me he's very interested/attracted to me and wants to get to know me. That was all find and all for me. I've only know him for about a week, and we've met up with each other 3 times. But this time he started trying to hold my hand, cuddling, and kissing. Because he said he likes me. My confusion kinda sets in because I don't know if I can say that back, but at the same time I don't reject his advances but I still feel really nervous. So I said I wanted to take it slow, but at the same time when he talked about not doing any of those things anymore, I kinda wanted to say no, I don't mind, don't stop. SO I'm really confused. I want to take it slow, calling him my boyfriend right now seems a little fast for me, but at the same time I'd still like to see him. Its just he seems to be coming on really strong for me at least, but I don't know what to do. I don't know what I'm feeling, and I don't know how I can figure this out. It's really new and different and I don't know how to handle it. Any advice? My brain is driving me nuts...
SJC2008 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Holding hands on a 3rd date is no big deal. IF you're dating at a date a week pace! Of course it feels wierd, you've only known the guy a week. Spread the dates out.
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