Necromancer Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I remember when i made a approach at school last year. I thought it was pretty good. The problem was that it was like talking to a brick wall. It doesn't matter how much "Game/Confidence/Cave manning" you spit on her if she doesn't find you attractive. If she find you attractive it will be easy(replies with more than one word answers), asks questions and doesn't tell you to fuark off. The more physically attractive you are the less social skills you need. Blaming social skills for lack of success if the person can hold normal conversation is wrong.
Mrlonelyone Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Sort of. I guess the social skill is being able to read weather someone is into your conversation or not. Then if they aren't moving on. 2
TouchedByViolet Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 It depends. I knew a guy at a work who was smooth. He could go up to anyone and say a few words and put a smile on their face or even get them to laugh. Communication is like an art form. Some people got it and others don't. It can be worked on but a lot of it is talent. When you watch one of those 1/100 guys who knows what, when and how to say things it's like watching an artist at work.
SJC2008 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 I remember when i made a approach at school last year. I thought it was pretty good. The problem was that it was like talking to a brick wall. It doesn't matter how much "Game/Confidence/Cave manning" you spit on her if she doesn't find you attractive. If she find you attractive it will be easy(replies with more than one word answers), asks questions and doesn't tell you to fuark off. The more physically attractive you are the less social skills you need. Blaming social skills for lack of success if the person can hold normal conversation is wrong. Good point, especially the bold. Women LOVE to talk! Most of them won't even have a problem doing most of the talking. If you can conversate with a man, you can conversate with a woman! Many people kept hammering on social skills in SD's dating and sex thread!
SilentVoice Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Who said he could hold a normal conversation?
somedude81 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Good point, especially the bold. Women LOVE to talk! Most of them won't even have a problem doing most of the talking. If you can conversate with a man, you can conversate with a woman! Many people kept hammering on social skills in SD's dating and sex thread! What's even more ridiclous is that I've given plenty of example of me having female friends and hanging out with girls, and yet people still assume that I have sub-par social skills. *Gives cold stare to SilentVoice* 1
SilentVoice Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 You should have guy friends too. I am telling you. You can be the friend's girl friend's friend drunken adventure or adventure. Networking Or you can call it Net-****ing.
charlietheginger Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Years ago i met a guy that approached women If they didnt seem responsive he would snort A big ball if snot and spit it out in the floor infront Of them and walk away. Guy was a weirdo
Author Necromancer Posted January 19, 2013 Author Posted January 19, 2013 A good looking guy with average game will clean up compared to a below average looking guy with skin-tight game. I agree. Still people find this hard to understand. They can increase or harm your success but they are not end all be all.
ThaWholigan Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Defeatist mentality. Social skills are one thing - learning how to be attractive in spite of how you percieve yourself or how some girls do, another. You do have to get advanced at the social sh-t but I wonder about the way you view this. "Why should I have to do this for some boring chick". Well, why not for other reasons then? You want to stay the same? Never reach beyond your plateaus? Think about it........ The most social guys I know all f-ck the most girls. They range from ugly to model .
Mrlonelyone Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Defeatist mentality. Social skills are one thing - learning how to be attractive in spite of how you percieve yourself or how some girls do, another. You do have to get advanced at the social sh-t but I wonder about the way you view this. "Why should I have to do this for some boring chick". Well, why not for other reasons then? You want to stay the same? Never reach beyond your plateaus? Think about it........ The most social guys I know all f-ck the most girls. They range from ugly to model . ^^ This. Bad looks can be an impediment to getting in bed with a beautiful person but they aren't a wall. A 9 or 10 will sleep with a 4 or 5 if that person pushes the right buttons. Especially if it turns out they are particularly good lovers. (This is not the same as becoming a steady couple and such. People will have sex with a larger universe of other people than they would settle down with.)
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