asa Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Hey I'm new to here, but just wanted some advice on what to do. I met this guy a few months ago and we started really well, we were talking loads, I did notice that at times he would just stop replying to my texts and I would have to text again for him to reply, but we got closer as time went on, he said he liked me, and we planned to meet properly (we live a few hours from each other). It would annoy me that sometimes he'd stop, its like he didn't really care, but then he sounded so interested when we spoke so I just assumed he was a bad texter. Everything was fine till about the Christmas holidays, he wouldn't reply till hours or maybe even a day after and I had to text him again so I realised he was busy and wished him a good Christmas and just left it at that. About a week or so after I text him to ask how his Christmas was and he completely ignored me and I just got fed up so I finally sent him a text asking if there was something wrong, and what exactly I had done for him to ignore me. He text back saying I'd done nothing and he likes to talk to me when he's not busy etc. Anyway I was pretty annoyed at the time and just left it. He then text me after new years and everything seemed to go back to how it was and I was happy he actually realised that it upset me what he did, we talked for the day but then he just didn't reply. That was more than 2 weeks ago. A few hours ago I messaged him, and I know he's seen it, no reply. What should I do? He gave so many signs that he was interested etc, and now i'm just confused. I don't want to send another text saying that it annoys me but I don't know what to take from it all. Any advice would be appreciated.
skylark100 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 He really isn't that interested. It's that simple. Don't read into what he says, but rather what he does. In this case, he ignored you. If he really liked you he'd find the time! Time for you to move onto the next... 1
Author asa Posted January 19, 2013 Author Posted January 19, 2013 Yeah I guess I just need to accept that. I think whats making it harder is even when he spoke to me after news years he was still being flirty and so on and it just makes me think why lead someone on if you're not interested?
Casablanca Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Unfortunately it sounds like you are Plan B. Be done with him, you are not on the top of his list, so don't make him the top of your list 1
DC4 Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Yeah I guess I just need to accept that. I think whats making it harder is even when he spoke to me after news years he was still being flirty and so on and it just makes me think why lead someone on if you're not interested? It really sounds like he's doing the opposite of leading you on Forget about this clown.
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