bobby5 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 My story is posted elsewhere and im not gonna put the whole thing here coz ye wont read it all. Suffice to say Im seperated father of 2 and seperated a long time (3 years) Neither of us however moved on to new relationships. I did try to get back with her a few times and failed. I left it and focused on becoming a better me. I started the process of trying to get back towards end of last year. We met a lot. talked a lot, nothing happened but we spent some time together with the kids. Anyway she decided recently she doesnt want to give us a go (i know i was close) and want to mov on and meet people. I was gutted and initiated no contact only days ago. No problem to her as she has been the one with the power for a long time. Anyway I emailed her telling her i didnt want to talk about anything anymore and just talk to kids when i phone and not stay in house any more (used to sleep beside the kids) and since then thats what happened. Anyway tonight i get a missed calll after the kids bed time. I didnt answer. Since we have kids i have to respond so i text saying im in company and not convenient to phone now but if emergency i call right away otherwise i phone the kids tomorrow. She text back no emergency thats fine. It is most likely nothing but i am so proud of myself and felt a little bit of power and felt like a man again no i mean felt human again and i felt i mattered. No contact is definitelly the way to go. Again its prob nothing and no way she was gonna ask me back on that call but i feel good. Any tips or advice on handling no contact when there are kids and how long I should continue and what would i expect to see from her before i break it. i already feeel like i may not need her. it amazing.
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