werty Posted August 22, 2004 Posted August 22, 2004 hello,im back. sadly i am still unlucky with love. the last relation i had let call it the second time around of this girl. we broke up last may & since then we havent really even talked either on phone on cell. accidentaly around last wek of july, we saw each other on a friends business opening. and quite was able to talk for a while but nothing really touchy, just simple how are yous & hows ur life. then last week, we were able to be together again, with her cuz & her boyfriend who were used to be our buddies coz we for used to go out together. so it happened the whole day as if it was yesterday, like we never really broke up except that we didnt held hands. talk, laugh and stroll like we all used to... ok so when i had the chance, asked her if "how are we?"... stupid of me... she said no, shes tired. things just didnt worked out. i explain everything i know of that made her happy, that im very sorry for them.. but still no... so now since that day up until now, she has been ignoring me. and didnt even gave me her cell number coz we might again txt each other, nor do want to go to our friends business for the reason that we might again see each other.. i asked her cousin for help, but i dont know if it was a good idea... i just dont know why she avoids me soo much, but pretends to act fine when we see each other like the two times we saw each other. i am planning to call her at home or maybe visit her at home, but then it might get worse. pls tell me anyone what i should do. i really dont know what to do.. and to think her bday is nearing and its making me crazy... thanks...
mehim Posted August 23, 2004 Posted August 23, 2004 you need to just let it go, she obvisiouly told u that she is not interested in trying again, or being freinds or whatever u wanted from her, so i say have some pride and leave her alone, the more u r going to try and contact her, the further she is gonna pullaway. she was nice when u guys met, cuz she might of been trying to be polite. so i say that u need to let go, and forget about her.
kellydontwanttasleep Posted August 23, 2004 Posted August 23, 2004 she's ignoring you because your needy and feels like close to a stalker. let it go and be a man not the loser you are.
Author werty Posted August 24, 2004 Author Posted August 24, 2004 to bad.. i always thought that things could still be mended....
Author werty Posted September 3, 2004 Author Posted September 3, 2004 for some reasons, her cousin tried to help our relation by setting up a date & time for the four of us to meet. so that night we were able to talk. though still she is set to let go the relationship, i just happen to understand why & what made her make a decision. it was her hatred & anger against me. it was something i have said that made her realise that shes losing her love for me until a time came, when she woke up that she felt she was no longer in love with me... too bad. all i ever did that night was let my tears fall & explaining everything(im was feeling very weak). but still nothing budges.. shes is happy with her life now, with her family & with her having no commitment and all. i guess she is indeed really mad. she wants a total no contact. she wants me out and not bother her again. though she hugged me telling me that she is happy the way things are now, i just dont know... but one thing is certain, she is the only one who controls her feelings and even if what she said was true or not, still it was a decision she can only make. noone and not even her closest friends would make her decision change. a decision in which she feels she doesnt feels anything for me anymore..... i dont know if i give up or not but all i can do now is pray that she can forgive me and hope that her anger will subside... and and for her to know how she really means to me... replies are welcome... thanks
kellydontwanttasleep Posted September 5, 2004 Posted September 5, 2004 you need to let this go and move on with your life.
Samson Posted September 5, 2004 Posted September 5, 2004 she's ignoring you because your needy and feels like close to a stalker. let it go and be a man not the loser you are. Sheez KDWS!!!! How do you really feel?
beautiful Posted September 5, 2004 Posted September 5, 2004 way to much drama! you simply let go! If she is avoiding you and you still bothering her what does it say about you? I feel you got some serious issues and that is why your relationships do not work out. Maybe it is time to take a good look at yourself and do some soul searching and repair what is going on within yourself. Once you done this , you can go out and find a healthy relationship with a healthy girl. You get back what you put into a relationship and you can only love someone else as much as you love yourself........................hmmmmmmmmmmmm I do not see a lot of self love here! Why would you want someone that does not want you?
Author werty Posted September 6, 2004 Author Posted September 6, 2004 yeah, but what can i do? i didnt want her to go... but then again, who am i to make that decision for her...
bball2079 Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 you should just let go there are other fish in the sea.
blue17 Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 Originally posted by werty yeah, but what can i do? i didnt want her to go... but then again, who am i to make that decision for her... you are WAY too infatuated with her. By the way you're acting you make it seem like she is the end all be all....she is not. There are tons of other girls out there.....and plenty who are better. You are desperately waiting for whatever scraps she will give you, and it's making you seem very unattractive to her. Get out there and meet other girls....after a short time you will forget about this chick.
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