napy666 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 My friend told me of this one guy and how he's a Virgin and he was just looking for another Virgin but couldn't find any until she thought of me. So she showed me his profile online and I did not find him attractive at all. But I decided to talk to him just to see if we click in a way somehow. We did talk a little bit and even went on a date and been talking on and off since. But I still don't find him at all attractive and thinking of cutting him loose. But my mom likes him a lot and thinks I should be his friend and still go out with him because he's a nice guy, he lives in the area, he drives and works and I need a friend. But I don't want a friend I want a boyfriend and someone that shares the same interests as me etc etc. Me and this guy we don't really share much in common at all. I don't know what to do really.
NateC Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 If you go out with him and are not attracted you'd have to let him know you just want to be friends and that's it. If you don't you'd be leading him on. Otherwise, it's completely up to you. Your mom can't control your relationships.
Author napy666 Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 If you go out with him and are not attracted you'd have to let him know you just want to be friends and that's it. If you don't you'd be leading him on. Otherwise, it's completely up to you. Your mom can't control your relationships. Yeah I know she can't control my relationships but she see's a friend and wants me to be friends with him but I don't wanna be friends hahaha.
OJ loved Nicole Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 but I don't wanna be friends hahaha. Then don't, you live your life for YOU!! Live your life for others and before you know it you will be old and miserable, looking back at a life filled with pushing your needs/wants/desires aside to make others happy. No way to go through life. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 To a degree attractiveness matters. To some more. I'm more a Guy who likes normal to +9 chicks.
TouchedByViolet Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 Attractiveness definitely matters. Also, it is ok to be just friends with this guy if that is what you want. You should clearly communicate your level of interest.
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