Zammo25 Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I have finally got some resolve. She will return my items. I sent a very civil e mail wishing her and Mr Perfect well. I got a montone reply. She really is a hard b*tch. I don't deserve this and I am a decent bloke but this has wound me up. Yeah move on to Mr Perfect and have a wonderful life, lead me along and then transfer your feelings to another guy why not ? Then just deny what you said and now you acted when we were together. I am seriously pissed off now and may send an e mail telling her exactly how it is. How is it people move onto domestic bliss and think there is no comeback ? They can just **** someones life up and think that is fine. No, this is not right.
geegirl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 If someone else posted this, you'd be telling them to let it go. You're only going to sound bitter if you send her another email. She'll probably read past the first sentence, roll her eyes and log off from her email. You sent her that civil email to get a reaction. You didn't get what you wanted and now you're mad. You expected some sort of kind validation. But she gave you nothing. If the intent was to wish her well and get your things, objective accomplished. Leave it at that. She's emotionally detached. Your hurts will not bother her nor will she give you the response you want. It is over. Let it go. Relationships have no guarantee. People move on. Feelings change. Partners act like shytt. There is no use fuming over it. Start accepting that it's done.
Author Zammo25 Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 If someone else posted this, you'd be telling them to let it go. You're only going to sound bitter if you send her another email. She'll probably read past the first sentence, roll her eyes and log off from her email. You sent her that civil email to get a reaction. You didn't get what you wanted and now you're mad. You expected some sort of kind validation. But she gave you nothing. If the intent was to wish her well and get your things, objective accomplished. Leave it at that. She's emotionally detached. Your hurts will not bother her nor will she give you the response you want. It is over. Let it go. Relationships have no guarantee. People move on. Feelings change. Partners act like shytt. There is no use fuming over it. Start accepting that it's done. So let someone screw you over and let it go then ? Nah.
geegirl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 So let someone screw you over and let it go then ? Nah. Then go on the attack. The thing is, she won't even care. It's a waste of time and effort to force someone to validate your hurts and your feelings. If they are willing to screw you over, trust that your email bears no burden on them, but only on you. Send the email.
Author Zammo25 Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 Then go on the attack. The thing is, she won't even care. It's a waste of time and effort to force someone to validate your hurts and your feelings. If they are willing to screw you over, trust that your email bears no burden on them, but only on you. Send the email. People need to face their conseqeunces.
geegirl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 People need to face their conseqeunces. You can't force people to be accountable. She didn't commit murder. She acted poorly within the relationship. You have to let it go. If she couldn't extend you decency within the R, after the R, she won't start doing it now. Even if you send her a scathing email. She'll read it and close it. Then what do you do? What's the next plan of making someone accountable for their behavior? Go to her house? Make her apologize?
Author Zammo25 Posted January 18, 2013 Author Posted January 18, 2013 You can't force people to be accountable. She didn't commit murder. She acted poorly within the relationship. You have to let it go. If she couldn't extend you decency within the R, after the R, she won't start doing it now. Even if you send her a scathing email. She'll read it and close it. Then what do you do? What's the next plan of making someone accountable for their behavior? Go to her house? Make her apologize? I F*CKING hate her now. Bitch.
geegirl Posted January 18, 2013 Posted January 18, 2013 I F*CKING hate her now. Bitch. This should be the nail in the coffin. I've been wronged before and forced that person to right the wrong. Just an apology. It never happened. It only made it worse for me because I was beating a dead horse. They moved on and I was still struggling to find my closure. Let go. Even if she responded graciously, the situation remains the same. She hurt you and you're still stuck with the same wounds.
Blastoplast Posted January 19, 2013 Posted January 19, 2013 Don't do it. Be the better man and take the high road.
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