KatZee Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 She's just emotionally unavailable at the moment. She's got walls up and fears of being hurt and whatever else. She'll come out of it when she's over the past and when she meets someone she really clicks with and gets serious with. You're not in. No foul no harm. It didn't work out. CaptSavAHo is right... way too much drama and way too many pages on this thread for such a miniscule thing.
Author chndude Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 That's fine man. I am not interested in her now. But, you make her sound like a emotionally fragile person. She is just selfish and indecisive. She once told me that she wants to live in a 3,000 square foot posh apartment after marriage. I told her I can't afford all that. She says, let's see if there are smaller ones that are comfortable. Lol. She was the one texting me all the time. If I didn't text for a few hours, she will say something like "hello, I am still alive". It is over but it is over because she is an attention seeking girl who thought I will always run behind her like a guy without self esteem. The moment I didn't do that, she stopped liking me... Her loss, not mine. If anything, I gained by not getting involved with a not very good person.
Samilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 There's a difference between being mannered and being a doormat, not sure how else to put it. She's been a clear, quite mean about it, I would have given her the silence/indifference treatment, not an invite for a juice.
Author chndude Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 There's a difference between being mannered and being a doormat, not sure how else to put it. She's been a clear, quite mean about it, I would have given her the silence/indifference treatment, not an invite for a juice. It's fine. I am not a doormat but I am not going to defend myself. I can't write about everything she has done on this forum as it would take a lot of time. If I gave you the complete picture, you will be able to see that she sort of walked me to an imaginary intimacy room, in just two weeks, and then kicked me out of the back door, for no reason at all. LOL. She was talking about how I am too tall and how I would squish her in bed. What? Who talks like that in two weeks, unless they are into someone? LOL.. And you guys are blaming me for getting involved. When a girl you like on the surface talks like that, you are going to feel like you have made it into her life. 5 days later she goes cold and you guys expect me to just leave everything as if I didn't care about her. I did care about her then, even after she started the fight and I cared about her even until yesterday, thinking she needed time, because that is what she told me "she needed time to get over the fight". I wasn't being a doormat when I asked her out for a juice yesterday, was just seeing what's on her mind. Now, I know that "Crazy" is what is on her mind. Even over these past two weeks, she sort of gets irritated if I walk by without saying anything. She tries to get my attention by walking around me. She is a piece of work. Like one of the members said here "She wants attention but not affection". I got better things to do with my life. In fact, there is another nice girl in the gym that I already talked to. I am just going to look at this crazy one like I look at a inanimate object from now on. Who gives a crap anymore?
Author chndude Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 (edited) Ignore this thread. Don't want to write about all this anymore. Edited January 30, 2013 by chndude Ignore this thread. Don't want to write about all this anymore.
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